Hosted by Tim Ervin · 🇺🇸 US · EN · 17 episodes
Established thought leaders with verified media credentials.
The Attachment Trap PodcastHosted by therapist and author Tim Ervin, this podcast unpacks dating, love, and the nervous system one story at a time. Based on the book The Attachment Trap: Loving Without Losing Yourself, each episode helps you understand your attachment patterns, stop chasing unavailable love, and date with clarity and calm. If you’ve ever spiraled after a text or felt “too much,” you’re not broken, you’re wired for survival. Learn how to rewrite the script and finally feel safe in connection. Grab the book on Amazon, available in both Kindle and paperback.
Tim Ervin hosts The Attachment Trap: From Chaos to Calm: Dating, Attachment and Real Love., a education show with 17 episodes published.
Rehearsing Your Future: How Future Pacing Changes the Brain Welcome to today's episode. What if confidence wasn't something you had to wait for? What if calm, self-trust, healthy boundaries, and resilience could be pract
Welcome to The Attachment Trap Podcast, where therapist and author Tim Ervin and his partner, Susan, dive into the messy, beautiful world of modern love. From anxious texting spirals to “why do I always date the same kin
What if your thoughts were only passing visitors—clouds drifting through the sky, waves rolling across the ocean, leaves floating down a stream? Each week, we’ll explore guided mindfulness journeys, progressive relaxatio
Have you ever wondered why the same fights keep showing up in your relationships, even when you swear you’ll never repeat the pattern? You’re not broken, you’re human. And your nervous system is simply replaying old atta
In this Season 1 finale of The Attachment Trap Podcast, Tim Ervin brings everything full circle with a “Previously on…” style recap of Episodes 1–12. Think sitcom montage meets relationship psychology: Ross and Rachel’s
Episode 12: When Charm Isn’t Safety: Why Your Nervous System Confuses Narcissistic Traits for Love Charm can feel magnetic, but often it’s not the same as safety. In this episode, Tim Ervin explores why so many of us are
Saying no can feel terrifying, especially if your nervous system learned early on that love depended on compliance, helpfulness, or keeping the peace. In this episode, Tim Ervin unpacks why boundaries are so hard, how si
Do you ever wonder why the people who give you the biggest butterflies also leave you the most drained? That’s the trap of mistaking chaos for chemistry. In this episode of The Attachment Trap Podcast, therapist, coach,
Ever feel like your texting style is running your love life? Think Keeley from Ted Lasso firing off twenty texts in a row, all emojis and urgency, versus Ted himself, who sends a goofy message and then goes on with his d
We’ve all become professionals at spotting red flags in dating. The late-night texts, the “I’m bad at commitment but let’s see where this goes,” the mysteriously empty apartment with three snakes but no furniture, we not
Think of the last time you felt that head-spinning rush of attraction, the kind that makes you lose your appetite, lose your mind, maybe even lose yourself. Movies call it true love. Songs call it soulmates. But here’s t
You know what’s worse than being ghosted? Realizing your nervous system has been trained to expect it and still feeling the pull toward the people who disappear. In Chapter 6 of my book, The Attachment Trap, I call this
Welcome to The Attachment Trap Podcast, hosted by therapist, coach, and author Tim Ervin. If you’ve ever wondered why your love life feels like a rollercoaster—steady one moment and chaotic the next—this show is for you.
Your nervous system might be confusing chaos for chemistry. Here’s how sitcom couples can teach you the difference between thrilling and truly safe. Ever wonder why you keep ending up with partners who feel exciting but
Episode 1: Attachment Theory Ever feel like your dating life belongs in a sitcom? In this episode, therapist and author Tim Ervin breaks down why your love life might look more like Modern Family than a rom-com—and how y
Welcome to The Attachment Trap Podcast “You’re not broken, you’re wired for survival.” In this very first episode, therapist, coach, and author Tim Ervin introduces the heart and soul of The Attachment Trap Podcast. If d
Episode 3: Meet the Inner Crew Running Your Love Life Based on Chapter 3 of The Attachment Trap: Loving Without Losing Yourself Have you ever looked back at your dating history and thought, “Why do I keep choosing the sa
Episode 2: Nervous System 101 – Why Dating Feels Like a Threat (Even When It’s Supposed to Be Fun) You’ve just had a great date. There’s chemistry, laughs, maybe even lingering eye contact. You wake up the next morning,
Sponsor detection runs nightly. Check back soon.
No public pitch examples yet for this show.
Generate your own personalised pitchBased on semantic analysis of episode topics and host coverage, this show is a strong guest fit for executives in:
Industry fit is computed by PitchCentric using vector embeddings of the show's episode catalog.
Shows with the most semantically similar episode content. Pitch one, pitch all; producers cluster.
The Attachment Trap: From Chaos to Calm: Dating, Attachment and Real Love. has a verified contact on file. Create a free PitchCentric account to access it and generate a personalised pitch in seconds. Research at least 3 recent episodes first and lead with a specific angle that serves their education audience.
The Attachment Trap: From Chaos to Calm: Dating, Attachment and Real Love. is hosted by Tim Ervin. The show is categorised under education (self improvement) and has published 17 episodes.
The Attachment Trap: From Chaos to Calm: Dating, Attachment and Real Love. has published 17 episodes.
The Attachment Trap: From Chaos to Calm: Dating, Attachment and Real Love. regularly covers education, self improvement. It sits in the education category, with a self improvement focus.
The Attachment Trap: From Chaos to Calm: Dating, Attachment and Real Love. is accessible for guests with genuine education expertise. A personalised, episode-aware pitch will still outperform a generic one every time.
The Attachment Trap: From Chaos to Calm: Dating, Attachment and Real Love. hasn't explicitly signalled guest openness in recent episodes. That doesn't rule out pitching. your hook just needs to be especially compelling and relevant to their recent content.
Episodes of The Attachment Trap: From Chaos to Calm: Dating, Attachment and Real Love. average 11 minutes. a focused format where a clear narrative arc and tight preparation matter most.
Our data rates The Attachment Trap: From Chaos to Calm: Dating, Attachment and Real Love.'s guest bar at 80/100 (Premium tier). Established thought leaders with verified media credentials. Sign in to PitchCentric to see how your own Pod Score compares against this show.
Methodology. Booking Probability™ blends Listen Score, 30-day Virality, open-to-guests detection, and Apple ratings. Data refreshed every 60 minutes. Listen Score and Booking Probability are calculated by PitchCentric. Last enriched 3 days ago.