
The Bari Chronicles
Forget the Scales: The Life We Got Back After Metabolic Surgery
When we first considered metabolic surgery, we thought the goal was pretty obvious: lose weight. Years later, we realise the scales were only a tiny part of the story. In this episode of The Bari Chronicles, Tash and Damo go back to where their journeys began and have an open conversation about what metabolic surgery has really meant for both of them. Tash shares the trauma of her early lap band experience, why it took her years to consider surgery again, and the moment that finally made her decide she wanted a different life. Damo reflects on having his gastric sleeve in 2014, losing a significant amount of weight, experiencing weight regain, and why having surgery never meant the work was finished. They also talk about something that doesn't get discussed enough: what happens when the numbers stop being the goal? Because success might be running a marathon. It might be climbing a mountain. It might be getting a better job, being more present with your family, or simply doing something you never thought your body would allow you to do. And sometimes it's something much quieter. For Damo, one of those moments came recently when he took his daughter Hermione to her first formal, years after being told he may only have five years to live. This episode isn't about perfect before-and-after stories. It's about weight regain, complications, fear, shame, support, learning to live after surgery and recognising the victories that no set of scales can measure. What's your biggest non-scale victory?




