
Episode #76
Raising Kids Without a Village, A Dedicated Episode with Briana Schmidt from Wonders of Wildlife National Museum and Aquarium and Jessi Gorman from the Fort Worth Zoo
Send me a message! This week we have another dedicated episode on one topic of motherhood, not having a "village" to help you raise your children. My guests are Briana Schmidt from Wonders of Wildlife National Museum and Aquarium and Jessi Gorman from the Fort Worth Zoo. Both have been on the podcast before and I'm happy to welcome them back to talk about his important topic! Briana and Jessi talk about what their biggest challenges are in raising kids without a community. Most of those challenges center around schedules and finding and having people available that you trust to watch your children. Both talk about having to find weekend care for their children and how they went about finding caregivers that they trusted. It's hard to ask for help when you don't feel like you have a "go-to" family member or friend to help, especially with last minute needs or those times when you just need someone to watch your child for a couple of hours so you can get something done. Not wanting people to feel obligated to watch your child is an emotion that comes up time and time again, especially when children are younger and more is involved in their care. There's also the things that you don't think of would be a challenge when you don't have a village, including who you put down as emergency contacts if you and your partner can't be reached, who can help watch your child if you are sick, and how do you spend quality time with your partner when it's not easy to find someone to watch your child for a night out. The question becomes, "Is the thing I need/want to do worth it right now to go through having to find someone to watch my child or should I just bring them along?" Ultimately, both Briana and Jessi have slowly but surely built villages and friend groups that allow them to have support but it's not easy and like Briana says, you have to put into it what you want to get out! Mothering Wildlife links: Facebook MotheringWildlifePodcast Instagram @motheringwildlife Email: motheringwildlife@gmail.com






