Welcome to How Are We 40? , a podcast for women in their late 30s and 40s navigating adulthood, relationships, and the unhinged reality of modern womanhood. Each week, sisters-in-law Taylor and Whitney—one deep in mom life and mental load, the other spiraling about dating and singledom—unpack the brutal and hilarious realities of being millennial woman in the 2020s. Expect unfiltered conversations about marriage, dating, friendship, careers, motherhood, body changes, aging, and identity crises. From perimenopause Google searches to relationship fights, work burnout, and making friends as an adult, nothing is off limits. If you love podcasts for women about relationships, life transitions, mental health, and figuring out who you are after 35, you’re in the right place. Expect oversharing, questionable advice, and the comforting reminder that nobody has “having it all” figured out — everyone is just making it up as they go. <p style='color:grey; font-siz
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Signup to Generate a PitchWelcome to How Are We 40?, a podcast for women in their late 30s and 40s navigating adulthood, relationships, and the unhinged reality of modern womanhood. Each week, sisters-in-law Taylor and Whitney, one deep in mom life and mental load, the other spiraling about dating and singledom, unpack the brutal and hilarious realities of being millennial woman in the 2020s.
Recent episodes include "A Halloween Scrooge!" (26 October 2026, 69 minutes), "Molly, You In Danger Girl" (19 October 2026, 73 minutes), and "Brb" (20 July 2026, 78 minutes).
How Are We 40? publishes roughly weekly, with episodes averaging 60 minutes across 79 episodes.
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How Are We 40? is a society podcast with 79 episodes published.
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It’s spooky season, and Tay and Whit are digging deep into haunting topics like Whitney's manic Halloween mom overwhelm, the book that made the prospect of tradwife life even more scary (YESTERYEAR), and Taylor's hot...
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We’re BACK, baby! After a three-month hiatus, Tay + Whit return for Season 2 with a backlog of gossip, grievances and deeply unnecessary opinions. Tay dishes on her wedding extravaganza (and White Lotus -worthy Sicilian...
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Season 1 is somehow over, so we're ending the only way we know how—self-indulgently! We did an Ask Us Anything answering all your burning questions. We cover everything from Taylor and Travis' wedding to our last Google...
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Stand-up comedian, mom of two, and self-proclaimed horse addict Jessie Murphy joins us to contemplate the kryptonite of older women giving unsolicited feedback, what made her want to push her husband off a wall, and the...
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In honor of July 4th, we're bringing you a revolutionary episode: a summit of UK–USA relations. We invited our resident Brit (and Taylor's fiancé), Martin, to dive into the biggest cultural differences between our two...
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This week, we tackle two stories that had us texting each other in all caps. First, we break down Maternal Instinct— Netflix’s latest jaw-dropping true-crime doc which somehow manages to get more unhinged every ten...
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A very special VIP guest joins us this week to toast Whit’s favorite day of the year — Father’s Day. Ryan (Whit’s husband and Tay’s brother) joins us for a peek into Dad life with a rapid-fire round, stories from the...
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<p>This week, we realize we're all just one confession away from being the weird one in the group.</p><br><p>Taylor's engagement party guests learn about her deeply unsettling cereal habits, Whitney recounts her date...
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<p>This week, we're covering a lot of ground.</p><br><p>We debrief Taylor's engagement party (including the moments that made her cry), unpack the Summer House reunion, and take a forensic-level look at the body...
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<p>Because every summer starts with a vision board and ends with a sunburn—Taylor and Whit are back with Part 2 of their Summer Bucket Lists!</p><br><p>Taylor recaps a whirlwind 48 hours in Paris, where she attempted to...
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<p>This week, Tay + Whit unveil their extremely ambitious summer bucket lists — which somehow include foil boarding, camping, learning TikTok, and Tay possibly dissolving her face ahead of her wedding.</p><br><p>It’s...
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<p>You guys. We made it!!! </p><br><p>This week, recap the absolutely deranged Season 1 finale of The Valley — and honestly? Emmy consideration for whoever edited this fever dream together. Jax opens his sports bar...
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<p>This week on How Are We Forty?, we recap Episode 11 of The Valley — aka “Darkside Danny,” which is rich considering Jax and Jesse are out here behaving like actual sleep paralysis demons while Danny’s greatest crime...
This week, Whit + Julia compare notes about pandemic pregnancies, parenting chaotic kindergarteners, and a shared comic crush on the one and only Nathan Fiedler. They get into intrusive thoughts, the hypocrisy of the...
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<p>Your resident Bravo expert (Tay’s Dad) is back for another recap of the greatest show on television—and this episode is a gift. The Big Bear babymoon has officially gone rogue with unresolved tension bubbling over...
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<p>Breaking news: Tay is engaged!!! This week, we get the full story—one that involved method-acting, a blackout-level shock response and undercover operatives. </p><br><p>Also discussed: how engagement bliss lasts...
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<p>This week, Tay is joined by a very special guest—her dad—who comes in with the hot takes (and honestly? some extremely valid opinions). Together, they break down the cast’s trip to Big Bear, Janet’s covert mean girl...
We’re back with another round of Unqualified Advice from your favorite life coaches —aka two women with strong opinions and zero credentials. A packed advice episode featuring: unwanted fitness friendships, soft-launch...
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<p>It’s HAW40’s b-day!!! This week, we reflect on how this podcast started (as a coping mechanism, obviously), what we’ve learned after 12 months of oversharing, and why we’re still doing this. Plus, Whit recaps her...
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<p>Tay’s solo this week and she’s connecting the dots like CSI: Bravo. From secret texts to group chat removals, this episode is basically a masterclass in how to implode a friend group. Secrets are revealed (Tay...
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