
Finding Focus At Forty
Ever stare at a messy room, feel the pressure rise, and freeze anyway? That’s where Katie starts—naming the fog, questioning old assumptions about ADHD, and sharing the small, human tools that finally moved the needle. N

Hosted by Katie Koelliker · 🇺🇸 US · EN-US · 16 episodes
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40ish & Figuring It Out is a real, funny, and refreshingly honest podcast about life in your 40s — the messy middle where you’re too old for drama but too young to retire. Host Katie Koelliker dives into the chaos of midlife with humor and heart — from hormones and parenting to purpose and personal growth. No filters, just real talk, relatable stories, and a few laugh-until-you-cry moments along the way. If you’re somewhere between “I’ve got this” and “What the heck am I doing?” — this podcast is your new safe space. ✨ Because no one has it all figured out… but we’re doing pretty damn well for forty-ish.
Katie Koelliker hosts 40ish & Figuring It Out, a society show with 16 episodes published.

Ever stare at a messy room, feel the pressure rise, and freeze anyway? That’s where Katie starts—naming the fog, questioning old assumptions about ADHD, and sharing the small, human tools that finally moved the needle. N

Ever wake up tired and wonder how that’s even possible after a full night’s sleep? We go straight to the root and name what so many in their late 30s and 40s are feeling: this isn’t a sleep problem, it’s a capacity probl

What if “too late” is the wrong question and the better one is “what do I actually want now?” We dig into the midlife pivot with humor and honesty, peeling back the fear of looking foolish, the pressure to be instantly g

The waves of grief never truly stop—but they can get smaller when the logistics are clear. Author Lynn Stone joins us to share how her husband’s unexpected passing led her to create a practical, compassionate guide for e

What if the uneasy feeling you can’t name isn’t a problem to fix but a signal that something new is forming? We open up about the midlife identity shift many of us feel around forty and trade the pressure to reinvent for

What if resilience isn’t about being tough—but about letting yourself be seen? Today we sit down with counselor and author Stacy Schaffer to explore how healing starts when we match our insides to our outsides. Stacy ope

January doesn’t have to shout to matter. We’re kicking off 2026 by pressing pause on the pressure and choosing intention, reflection, and small, steady steps that actually fit a real life. Katie looks back on the quiet w

What if the “missing piece” of your story isn’t a flaw to fix but a new lens that finally makes everything make sense? Katie sits down with coach and community builder Natalie Sharp, who’s preparing for her own ADHD asse

Holiday magic feels different when you’re the one stitching it together. We open the curtain on the unspoken rules that push many of us to overfunction through December and show a livable way to trade performance for pre

A stranger’s outrage in a parking lot shouldn’t have ruined our afternoon—yet it did. That jolt of unfairness, the shock that steals your words, and the endless replay afterward can trap even the most grounded among us.

What if your forties were the start of your bravest chapter? We sit with marketer-turned-digital-nomad Lindsey Tague, who turned a layoff into a passport-powered reboot. She walks us through the messy middle—burnout, let

Ever crave people and peace at the same time? That tension sits at the heart of today’s conversation as we unpack why adult friendships feel heavier in midlife and how to keep them honest, warm, and sustainable. We start

A black dress, a front-row seat in Milan, and a decade-long lesson in how to turn scrutiny into fuel—this conversation dives into Victoria Beckham’s first documentary episode and why her story hits so hard for anyone 40-

The house gets quieter, the calendar loosens, and suddenly there’s room to ask bigger questions: Who am I now, and what do I want next? In a warm, honest conversation with book editor and newly published author Jennia D'

If you grew up thinking 40 would come with matching containers and a neat life plan, you’re in good company. We’re kicking off a fresh season of honest, funny, and deeply human conversations about what it really means to

✨ Promo Episode: Welcome to 40ish & Figuring It Out ✨ In this special kickoff episode, Katie introduces the heart and soul behind 40ish & Figuring It Out — a space for women who are navigating midlife with equal parts ch
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