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Hosted by Luke Shillings · society · EN
The ‘After the affair’ podcast with Luke Shillings is here to help you process, decide, and move forward on purpose following infidelity. Let’s explore what’s required to rebuild trust not only in yourself, but also with others. Whether you stay or leave, I can help! and no matter what your story, there will be something here for you.
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Signup to Generate a PitchThe ‘After the affair’ podcast with Luke Shillings is here to help you process, decide, and move forward on purpose following infidelity. Let’s explore what’s required to rebuild trust not only in yourself, but also with others. Whether you stay or leave, I can help! and no matter what your story, there will be something here for you.
After the Affair is hosted by Luke Shillings. The show has published 215 episodes to date.
Recent episodes include "214. Sliding Doors: Two Paths After Betrayal" (28 October 2026, 25 minutes), "213. Am I Defined By Betrayal?" (21 October 2026, 17 minutes), and "212. Was Staying The Right Decision?" (14 October 2026, 14 minutes).
After the Affair publishes roughly weekly, with episodes averaging 18 minutes across 215 episodes.
Booking probability for After the Affair is 36%, and the host is rated Selective on guests. After the Affair requires a Pod Score of 80 or higher. After the Affair's contact route on record: verified email.
The strongest fits for After the Affair are Family & Social Services and Health & Wellness Services. After the Affair has a society audience.
Luke Shillings hosts After the Affair, a society podcast with 215 episodes published.
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Episode #214
Imagine two versions of yourself, both starting at exactly the same moment. The same affair. The same pain. The same uncertainty about what happens next. But two very different paths through recovery. What if the...
Episode #213
You were betrayed. That's something that happened to you. But has it become who you are? After discovering an affair, it's natural to want answers. You read the books, listen to podcasts, join support groups and spend...
Episode #212
You decided to stay after the affair. At first, things seemed to be improving. You were communicating better, rebuilding trust, and perhaps even beginning to feel hopeful about the future. You started to believe you'd...
Episode #211
You have a good day together. You laugh. You feel close. Maybe for a few hours, you barely think about the affair at all. And then comes the thought: Am I letting them off too easily? After betrayal, even feeling better...
Episode #210
“I’m not ready.” It sounds reasonable. And sometimes it is. But when you're facing a difficult decision after betrayal, waiting can easily feel like the safe option. You don't have to commit. You don't have to risk...
Episode #209
After discovering an affair, have you found yourself looking back at your relationship and wondering whether everything meant something different? The late nights at work. The distance. The phone habits. That holiday...
Episode #208
Betrayal is emotional. So why can it make you feel physically awful? The tight chest. The sick feeling in your stomach. The exhaustion. The tension. The racing heart. Being completely shattered but somehow unable to...
"What if I'm ignoring the signs again?" After betrayal, that question can be incredibly difficult to shake. You trusted before. You believed what you were being told. And somewhere along the way, you discovered that...
Stay or leave? After betrayal, it can feel as though there must be a right answer. So you do what you've probably done successfully with countless other important decisions. You gather information. Weigh the options...
You're usually the person who handles things. The calm one. The problem-solver. The person others rely on when something goes wrong. And then betrayal happens. Suddenly, you can't concentrate. You're questioning...
If you're usually good at solving problems, betrayal can be uniquely frustrating. You're used to something going wrong, gathering the information, understanding what happened and figuring out what to do next. So when...
Have you ever walked away from a conversation after betrayal and immediately thought, "Why did I say that?" Maybe anger took over. You said something cutting, threatened to leave, or tried to make your partner...
Have you ever walked into a room and forgotten why you went there? Read the same email three times? Snapped at someone you love over something insignificant and wondered, "Where did that come from?" When you're...
Episode #201
"If I just knew one more thing..." It's one of the most common thoughts after betrayal. One more conversation. One more answer. One more piece of the puzzle. Because surely, once you finally understand everything...
Two hundred episodes. Hundreds of thousands of downloads. Thousands of messages. Hundreds of coaching conversations. And after everything I've learned from walking alongside people recovering from betrayal, there's one...
Why Do I Feel Worse At Night? You make it through the day. You go to work. You answer messages. You keep the family moving. You even catch yourself thinking, "Maybe I'm doing a little better today." Then night arrives...
"Just trust your gut." "Only you know what's right." "Take your time." They're all well-intentioned pieces of advice. But none of them answer the question that's really keeping people stuck after betrayal. What if I...
"You just need to let it go." It's one of the most common pieces of advice people receive after betrayal. And one of the least helpful. Because if letting go were simply a decision, you would have done it already. So...
Episode #196
Episode Summary / Show notes: One of the most frightening questions a betrayed partner can ask isn't: "Why did they do it?" Or even: "Can I trust them again?" It's this: What if they never change? What if the progress...
Episode #195
You check their phone. Their location. Their social media. Their messages. Their tone of voice. The time they arrived home. The way they answered a question. The hesitation before they replied. And even when you find...
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M. S. O.M., author, counselor, master life coach, international speaker, minister
psychologist and author of The Fix Your Addiction Handbook, Community Psychological Center
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