Hosted by Luke Shillings · 🇺🇸 US · EN · 197 episodes
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The ‘After the affair’ podcast with Luke Shillings is here to help you process, decide, and move forward on purpose following infidelity. Let’s explore what’s required to rebuild trust not only in yourself, but also with others. Whether you stay or leave, I can help! and no matter what your story, there will be something here for you.
Luke Shillings hosts After the Affair, a society show with 197 episodes published.
"You just need to let it go." It's one of the most common pieces of advice people receive after betrayal. And one of the least helpful. Because if letting go were simply a decision, you would have done it already. So why
Episode Summary / Show notes: One of the most frightening questions a betrayed partner can ask isn't: "Why did they do it?" Or even: "Can I trust them again?" It's this: What if they never change? What if the progress st
You check their phone. Their location. Their social media. Their messages. Their tone of voice. The time they arrived home. The way they answered a question. The hesitation before they replied. And even when you find not
It's been months. Maybe years. And yet somehow, you're still thinking about the affair every single day. You wake up and it's there. You go to bed and it's there. A song, a date, a place, a passing thought, and suddenly
Few conversations carry more emotional weight than sitting down with your children and explaining that something has changed in your family. After an affair, many parents find themselves caught between two competing fear
How do you tell your children that your relationship is over, especially after an affair? This is one of the hardest conversations parents face in the aftermath of betrayal. The relationship has ended. The decision has b
Should you tell your children about an affair? It’s one of the most difficult and emotionally loaded questions parents face after infidelity. You want to be honest, but you also want to protect them. You don’t want to li
Why do you feel stuck between two relationships… and unable to move forward? After (or even during) an affair, it’s common to feel pulled in different directions, torn between a long-term relationship and a new emotional
What happens when the person who betrayed you rewrites the relationship to justify what they did… and truly believes it? After infidelity, many betrayed partners are faced with a deeply confusing experience: their partne
Why does so much infidelity recovery advice leave you feeling worse instead of better? “Process your feelings.” “Communicate better.” “Decide whether to stay or leave.” These are some of the most common pieces of advice
Does leaving a relationship after infidelity actually make things better? Many people believe that once they leave, the pain will ease, that distance will bring clarity, relief, and emotional freedom. But what often foll
What does it mean when your partner moves on… but you’re still trying to process the betrayal? After infidelity, healing doesn’t follow a shared timeline. While one person may appear to move forward quickly, entering a n
What happens when you leave a relationship after infidelity… but you still love them? For many betrayed partners, the decision to walk away isn’t as clear-cut as it might seem. You may still feel love, attachment, and co
Can a relationship really recover after infidelity… or is there a point where you start to realise it won’t? After betrayal, many people hold onto hope that things can be repaired, that with enough effort, communication,
“It meant nothing.” It’s a phrase often said after betrayal, usually with the intention of reassuring a partner. But for many people, it doesn’t bring comfort, it creates confusion. Because if it truly meant nothing… why
When someone tries to explain a betrayal, one phrase often comes up: “It just happened.” But for the betrayed partner, this explanation rarely brings clarity or peace. Instead, it often creates more confusion. How can so
Alcohol is one of the most common explanations given after betrayal. But does alcohol actually cause infidelity, or does it simply remove the inhibition that normally prevents certain behaviours? In this episode, Luke ex
After betrayal, many people feel pressured to decide quickly, whether to stay, leave, forgive or move on. But what if feeling stuck isn’t failure? What if it’s part of growth? In this episode, Luke explores why discomfor
After betrayal, emotions can feel overwhelming. Anxiety, anger, shame and fear often lead to reactions that escalate conflict and reinforce pain. But what if the key to healing isn’t controlling your emotions, but interr
The first 30 days after discovering betrayal can feel like emotional chaos. Shock. Rage. Numbness. Obsession. Hope. Despair. All before lunch. In this episode, Infidelity recovery coach - Luke Shillings breaks down what
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After the Affair is hosted by Luke Shillings. The show is categorised under society (culture) and has published 197 episodes.
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