Episode #175
The Care That Comes Next: Surviving a Suicide Loss
Suicide doesn’t just take one life. It can leave an entire family, unit, and friend group trying to function while carrying grief, trauma, and a thousand urgent decisions they never asked for. We sit down with Dr. Carla Stomf Patton, Director of Suicide Postvention at TAPS ( Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors ), to talk about what actually helps after a suicide death and why the right response can reduce risk for everyone left behind. We get clear on a term many people mishear: postvention. It’s the care and coordinated support that happens after a suicide attempt or suicide death, and it’s tightly linked to prevention because isolation, shame, and untreated trauma are real risk factors. Dr. Patton explains how peer-based grief support creates safety fast, why talking openly about suicide matters, and how accurate training helps us ditch the myths that keep people silent when they should be reaching out. You’ll also hear what the TAPS process looks like from the first contact, including how survivors find support through TAPS.org and the 24/7 helpline, how peer mentoring works, and how caseworkers help families address immediate needs such as talking to kids, navigating benefits, and finding trauma-informed resources. We close with a simple action step anyone can take today: save 988 plus one in a buddy’s phone to create a pause that can save a life. If this conversation helps you, subscribe, share it with one person, and leave a review so more veterans and families can find these resources.
