
Episode #85
85 – You Forge Your Chains (And Hand Them To Your Children) // PATRIARCH PT 2
You can love your family, work your ass off for them, and still come home to a wife who feels alone. Daniel Grose learned that the hard way. He was determined to become everything his fathers weren’t. But one night, standing beside his wife as she cried over the dishes, he realized he’d arrived at a familiar place by a different road. Love and effort weren’t enough. He needed skills. Trying not to become your dad can still leave fear running your life. Your wife needs to be able to tell you what hurts without having to take care of your reaction. Your past doesn’t revoke your place as a son of God. The money stories you inherited don’t have to become the ones you hand your children. And faith requires more than saying you believe. Gabriel Mira spent 254 days in the hospital alongside his wife through her heart-transplant journey. His invitation is direct: stop waiting to walk in what God has already given you. Steph Allen learned how deeply a family’s beliefs about money can shape a man’s choices—and how costly those unexamined beliefs become. And I’m being asked to release things I’ve spent six years building. Forge. Order of Kings. Jedi Father Training. Patriarch is becoming the way forward. Listen to the very end for that. We forge the chains we wear. Then we hand them to our children. Or we don’t. Patriarch Highlights, Part 2. Daniel Grose. Gabriel Mira. Steph Allen. Uncommon — The Dadwork Podcast, Episode 85. JOIN PATRIARCH Join the community for $17, or choose $47 access for the full summit recordings to keep for life. SUPPORT THE SHOW / BECOME A PRODUCER If this moved you, send $5 on Venmo @robertbilljr . Every contribution helps keep these conversations alive. Top supporters receive official Producer Credits on future episodes. Share this with a man who needs it. Leave a rating or review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify, and tell me what stayed with you in the YouTube comments. // Raise them up in the way. x Rob




