Uncomfortable On Purpose

At 27, we thought certain things would look very different. We thought we’d be further along in our careers, own property, have children, and be in a completely different place financially. In this episode, Kudz and I...

It’s been a while, friend. In this episode, I’m catching you up on what’s been happening in my life and behind the scenes of my journey as a creator. The exciting opportunities, the doubts, the comparison, the...

Some of the beliefs I held most strongly a few years ago… I don’t believe anymore. In this episode, I’m sharing five things I’ve completely changed my mind about, from what confidence looks like as a Black woman, to...

Why does asking for more money feel so personal? In this episode, I’m unpacking the internal struggle of charging higher for my work and the money beliefs I didn’t realise I was carrying. From negotiating with brands to...

This week’s episode is a little different. Instead of diving into a specific topic, I’m letting you get to know me a little better. I asked my husband to come up with a list of questions, and I answered them without...

What happens when you’ve done everything “right” but success is taking longer than you expected? In this episode of Uncomfortable on Purpose, I’m talking about something I’ve been wrestling with lately: delayed...

In this episode, we explore a question that many ambitious people quietly wrestle with: Will anything ever feel like enough? From career goals and financial milestones to relationships, content creation, and personal...

In this episode, we’re unpacking the internet’s fascination with public mistakes, online backlash, and why it often feels easier to criticize than to extend grace. From cancel culture and call-out videos to creator...

<p>Season 1 is officially wrapped.<br>Six episodes in, and I’ve learned a lot. About this podcast, about showing up, and about what I want this to become.<br>I’m taking a short break to level things up behind the scenes...

<p>Submission.</p><p><br></p><p>A word that makes some women uncomfortable… and some men very comfortable.</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, I unpack a cultural practice that sparked a deeper question in me: </p><p>How...

<p>In this Ask Me Anything: Deck of Cards Edition, I used random cards as prompts and let the conversation go wherever it wanted. From marriage and PDA to career changes, career pressure, and the fear of disappointing...

<p>In this episode I unpack the subtle “promotion” of romantic relationships over all others. Why do we celebrate love… but quietly downgrade friendship?”</p><p>I was told growing up that my husband should be my best...

<p>Why do we really have children?<br>In this episode, I unpack the advice many of us grew up hearing; that you should have kids so you won’t be lonely, or that having children will strengthen your marriage.<br>But are...

<p>My grandmother once told me that the day she got married... five of my grandfather's relatives moved into their home. There is so much I want to unpack from her story. Let's dive into Family, marriage expectations...

<p>In this episode, I reflect on growing up in a culture where dating without chaperones wasn't an option. </p><p>We're talking courtship, structure, boundaries, and how those systems compare to modern dating...