Ruwando Podcast

<p>Your social brain "thinks" that if you are extra hard on yourself it will motivate you to do better.</p><p>But the opposite is true: The more you make yourself feel bad, the more you unconsciously do things to...

<p>"Men's Personal Development" wasn't a thing even one generation ago. It became so due to shifts in culture and technology. It also is a lens on the changes in male collective consciousness.</p><p>This episode...

<p>After a weird COVID relationship, a friend lent me a copy of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus.</p><p>While dated in terms of style, I was shocked at how useful it was 20 years later.</p><p>I was also surprised...

<p>Is there a formula for getting your way (with people or circumstances)?</p><p>In my experience, there are certain qualities that make someone particularly magnetic in this sense.</p><p>I draw an actionable metaphor...

<p>Patrick was in a dark place when met—ultra Nice Guy submissive tendencies, deep feelings of undeservingness, enmeshing Mother Complex, and acting out with p*rn and prostitutes.</p><p>Six months later, his life...

<p>Dropping an old favorite in honor of my anniversary today.</p><p>How to Help Her Into Her Feminine covers what a man can do to help a woman move from her competitive (“masculine”) self to her interdependent...

<p>The literal need to "protect and provide" is mostly obsolete in modern day. But women still desire to be contained when it comes to emotions, and to large degree, perceptions.</p><p>One of the huge differences...

<p>When I was 23, I fell in love with a drug addict. She was sexy and interesting. But more than that, she was WILD. </p><p>If my life was a movie, she was cast as the Manic Pixie Dream Girl—the adolescent male fantasy...

<p>Disney princesses are different today. So is our culture's Feminine Ideal.</p><p>Mrs. Meepagala and I debate on how these different female role models are imprinting the next generation of women, including our...

<p>What makes one psychologically ready for a committed relationship?</p><p>Jung’s essay, “The Love Problem of a Student”, discusses the early stages social dynamics that have become common to us 100 years later— “free...

<p>A recent epiphany has made me decide to move off visual media consolidate my podcast with substack.</p><p>It shouldn't change anything for you, though there's a *possibility* you won't see my new episodes pop up. (If...

<p>Here I read an essay by Carl Jung, "Woman As Soul", + give my commentary on what it means and how we can use it.</p><p>This is part of the source material for my next book, ANIMA: The Five Aspects of the Feminine-- A...

<p>Reality is a set of agreements.</p><p>This is a reading + commentary on a new post on substack on the nature of subjective reality: The process of brainwashing used by ideologies as seen in politics, communities, and...

<p>My book publishes Oct 31. You can get it at a discount + free bonuses:</p><p>1. How To Brainwash Yourself course that pulls mind control principles from my cult experience for positive identity...

<p>I connected with Sascha over a post he made of “why women in their 40’s are the unhappiest ever.” Whether that’s true or not, it’s food for important conversation about modern dating and relationships.</p><p>Sascha...