
Episode #131
Why High Achievers Self-Sabotage and How to Stop It with TEDx Speaker Natalie Siston
High achievers are often praised for their ambition, drive, and willingness to do whatever it takes. But those same strengths can become patterns of self-sabotage when they are pushed too far. In this episode of Prospecting On Purpose®, Sara Murray sits down with Natalie Siston, TEDx speaker, bestselling author of Let Her Out, and Lead Global Presenter at Positive Intelligence. Natalie was the second person in the world to become a Certified Positive Intelligence Coach and has helped leaders and teams around the world strengthen their mental fitness. Natalie explains how the Positive Intelligence framework helps people recognize the negative thought patterns known as saboteurs. These patterns can create unnecessary stress, burnout, frustration, people pleasing, perfectionism, and the need to control outcomes. Sara also shares her own assessment results and learns that she scored 10 out of 10 as a Hyper-Achiever, with Pleaser and Controller close behind. Natalie explains why saboteurs are often our greatest strengths taken too far and how greater awareness can help us respond intentionally instead of reacting automatically. In this episode, you’ll learn: • Why high achievers are especially vulnerable to self-sabotage • The difference between having a positive mindset and building mental fitness • How the Judge and nine accompanying saboteurs influence your thoughts and behavior • Why strengths like ambition, responsibility, and helpfulness can eventually contribute to burnout • What Sara’s Hyper-Achiever, Pleaser, and Controller results reveal about the way she works • How self-command helps you interrupt negative thought patterns • Why three focused breaths can help you reset before a stressful meeting or conversation • How the Sage perspective helps turn challenges into opportunities • Why Natalie rewrote her entire TEDx talk only three weeks before stepping onto the stage If you are accomplishing a lot on the outside but constantly pushing, pleasing, controlling, or criticizing yourself on the inside, this conversation will help you recognize what may be driving those patterns and begin responding differently. Take the Positive Intelligence Saboteur Assessment: https://positiveintelligence.com/saboteurs/ Connect with Natalie Siston Website: https://nataliesiston.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nataliesiston/ Watch Natalie’s TEDx talk, Thoughts Bloom: Plant Wisely: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1b1hVv7GPHs Learn more about Natalie’s book, Let Her Out: Reclaim Who You Have Always Been: https://letherout.com/ Connect with Sara Murray Website: https://www.saramurray.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/saramurraysales/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/saramurraysales/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@saramurraysales Listen to Prospecting On Purpose® on your favorite podcast platform: https://pod.link/1663074741 #NatalieSiston, #Self-Sabotage, #MentalFitness, #PositiveIntelligence, #HighAchievers, #Burnout, #Mindset, #Leadership, #PeoplePleasing, #TEDx






