Don’t let your mind pick a fight without you
Oct 1, 20255mEp. 1850
Runaway thoughts and catastrophizing hobble conversations before they even begin. Find episode transcript and links here. Subscribe to my newsletter here.
Hosted by Tammy Lenski · 🇺🇸 US · EN · 175 episodes
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How we handle conflict has an impact on the resilience of our vital relationships, the caliber of our decisions, the success of our careers, and our peace of mind. Mediator, conflict resolution teacher, and author Tammy Lenski, Ed.D., uses storytelling and science to help us transform our experience with conflict and inspire us to disagree better at work and at home. The podcast was formerly called The Space Between.
Tammy Lenski hosts Disagree better, a society show with 175 episodes published.
Runaway thoughts and catastrophizing hobble conversations before they even begin. Find episode transcript and links here. Subscribe to my newsletter here.
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Our conflict hooks influence the conflicts we get into, how we react, and how stuck we get (part 2 of a 4-part series). Find episode transcript and links here. Subscribe to my monthly newsletter here.
The story we tell ourselves and others about a conflict isn’t the story of the conflict. It’s our story of the conflict. But what is it trying to tell us? (Part 1 of a 4-part series) Find episode transcript and links her
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Help yourself think clearly, make better decisions, and keep impulses in check with these 11 mental tricks. Find episode transcript and links here. Subscribe to my monthly newsletter here.
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Venting anger doesn’t help you calm down and increases aggression. So why is the venting myth still embraced? And what’s better? Find episode transcript and links here. Subscribe to my monthly newsletter here.
Here's an exercise to help you identify your conflict hooks and increase emotional agility during difficult interactions. Find episode transcript here. Find part 1 here. How knowing your conflict hooks helps reduce confl
One of the best ways to increase emotional agility in conflict is to recognize and manage your conflict hooks. Find episode transcript and links here. Subscribe to my monthly newsletter here.
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