Episode #185
Don’t let your mind pick a fight without you
Oct 1, 20256 minS0
<p>Runaway thoughts and catastrophizing hobble conversations before they even begin.</p><p>Find episode transcript and links here. Subscribe to my newsletter here.</p>
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Disagree better
Hosted by Tammy Lenski · society · EN
About this Podcast:
How we handle conflict has an impact on the resilience of our vital relationships, the caliber of our decisions, the success of our careers, and our peace of mind. Mediator, conflict resolution teacher, and author Tammy Lenski, Ed.D., uses storytelling and science to help us transform our experience with conflict and inspire us to disagree better at work and at home. The podcast was formerly called The Space Between.
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What is Disagree better about?
How we handle conflict has an impact on the resilience of our vital relationships, the caliber of our decisions, the success of our careers, and our peace of mind.
Who hosts Disagree better?
Disagree better is hosted by Tammy Lenski. The show has published 175 episodes to date.
What has Disagree better covered recently?
Recent episodes include "Don’t let your mind pick a fight without you" (1 October 2025, 6 minutes), "Mental models: The invisible maps that shape our arguments" (9 September 2025, 7 minutes), and "Are you sure you’re solving the same problem?" (6 August 2025, 5 minutes).
How often does Disagree better publish?
Disagree better publishes roughly monthly, with episodes averaging 7 minutes across 175 episodes.
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Booking probability for Disagree better is 25%, and the host is rated Selective on guests. Disagree better requires a Pod Score of 80 or higher. Disagree better's contact route on record: verified email.
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The strongest fits for Disagree better are Courses, Coaching & Lessons and Business & Management Consulting. Disagree better has a society audience.
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Tammy Lenski hosts Disagree better, a society podcast with 175 episodes published.
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Recent episodes
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- Sep 9, 20257 minS0
<p>We disagree better when we understand the ways our mental models help and hinder us during conflict.</p><p>Find episode transcript and links here. Subscribe to my monthly newsletter here.</p>
Disagree better
Are you sure you’re solving the same problem?
Aug 6, 20255 minS0<p>One reason disagreements get messy is that people are on different train tracks and don’t know it. Here's how to fix that.</p><p>Find episode transcript and links here. Subscribe to my monthly newsletter here. Thanks...
- Jul 2, 20259 minS0
<p>Gravity problems make conflict resolution more difficult because they keep you stuck. Here’s how to recognize gravity problems when you see them, why they’re troublesome, and how to prevent them from hijacking...
Episode #181
Recalibration conversations
Jun 4, 20256 minS0<p>For conflict in vital relationships, don’t overlook the conversation that comes before the problem-solving conversation (part 4 of 4).</p><p>Find episode transcript and links here. Subscribe to my monthly newsletter...
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Episode #180
Break free from rowboating
May 21, 20257 minS0<p>Stop a conflict's past from holding you fast (part 3 of a 4-part series).</p><p>Find episode transcript and links here. Subscribe to my monthly newsletter here.</p>
Episode #179
Discover what you're really fighting about
May 7, 202510 minS0<p>Our conflict hooks influence the conflicts we get into, how we react, and how stuck we get (part 2 of a 4-part series).</p><p>Find episode transcript and links here. Subscribe to my monthly newsletter here.</p>
Episode #178
Unpacking our stuck stories
Apr 2, 20254 minS0<p>The story we tell ourselves and others about a conflict isn’t the story of the conflict. It’s our story of the conflict. But what is it trying to tell us? (Part 1 of a 4-part series)</p><p>Find episode transcript and...
Episode #177
Communicate better with looping
Mar 5, 20256 minS0<p>Effective communication requires both sending and receiving skills. This communication tool will help you do both.</p><p>Find episode transcript and links here. Subscribe to my monthly newsletter here.</p>
Episode #153
5 phrases to use when they raise their voice
Feb 5, 20258 minS0<p>How to lower the volume without fuss or drama and get the conversation back on track.</p> <p>Find episode transcript and links here. Subscribe to my monthly newsletter here.</p>
Episode #175
Replay: What really matters
Jan 1, 20259 minS0<p>In honor of his remarkable legacy, I’m replaying my 2020 story about Nobel Peace Prize laureate and former U.S. President, Jimmy Carter.</p> <p>Find episode transcript and links here. Subscribe to my monthly...
- Dec 4, 20249 minS0
<p>Conflict can be detrimental to relationships, but it doesn’t have to be. What makes the difference?</p> <p>Find episode transcript and links here. Subscribe to my monthly newsletter here.</p>
- Nov 3, 20245 minS0
<p>These phrases will help you introduce disagreement in a non-confrontational way.</p> <p>Find episode transcript and links here. Subscribe to my monthly newsletter here.</p>
- Oct 2, 20249 minS0
<p>Help yourself think clearly, make better decisions, and keep impulses in check with these 11 mental tricks.</p> <p>Find episode transcript and links here. Subscribe to my monthly newsletter here.</p>
Episode #171
My favorite ways to gain insight into a conflict
Sep 5, 20247 minS0<p>How I form “provisional theories” that can influence the trajectory of a conflict.</p> <p>Find episode transcript and links here, the QueryCards here, and conflict resolution quotes here. Subscribe to my monthly...
Episode #170
You're not listening
Aug 7, 20245 minS0<p>Do you seem like a bad listener when you disagree? Yes, you do, even when you’re an ace listener. Here's why.</p> <p>Find episode transcript and links here. Subscribe to my free monthly Substack newsletter here.</p>
- Jul 3, 20249 minS0
<p>Good problem-solving process is like a reliable GPS, helping us navigate a difficult conversation coherently.</p> <p>Find episode transcript and links here. Subscribe to my monthly newsletter here.</p>
- Jun 5, 202410 minS0
<p>Venting anger doesn’t help you calm down and increases aggression. So why is the venting myth still embraced? And what’s better?</p> <p>Find episode transcript and links here. Subscribe to my monthly newsletter...
Episode #121
Discovering and managing conflict hooks, part 2
May 2, 20249 minS0<p>Here's an exercise to help you identify your conflict hooks and increase emotional agility during difficult interactions.</p> <p>Find episode transcript here. </p> <p>Find part 1 here.</p> <p>How knowing your...
- Apr 10, 20249 minS0
<p>One of the best ways to increase emotional agility in conflict is to recognize and manage your conflict hooks.</p> <p>Find episode transcript and links here. Subscribe to my monthly newsletter here.</p>
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