Death on the Daily

Let's bring the conversation about death out of the shadows and into the mainstream, where it belongs. Podcast hosted by bereaved mother, coach and death doula, Tanya Wilkinson

Death on the Daily is a society podcast hosted by Tanya Wilkinson, with 119 episodes on record and a Required Pod Score of 80.

Tanya Wilkinson hosts Death on the Daily, a society show with 119 episodes published.

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  Death on the Daily

  Why you’re already grieving before they die | Anticipatory Grief 101

  Sep 24, 202619 min

  Are you caring for someone whose mind or body is slowly slipping away - or supporting a loved one as they navigate a terminal diagnosis? What you are experiencing has a name: Anticipatory Grief, and we are going to be unpacking this today. In today’s episode of Death on the Daily, certified grief coach Tanya Wilkinson pulls back the curtain on the silent tragedy of grieving before the end. We explore what anticipatory grief is, why it happens, and 3 practical tools to survive this emotional limbo without burning out. If this episode resonates with you, I’d love to hear any questions, reflections, or an honouring of any of your loved ones in the comments if you're watching on Spotify. Are you journeying with grief? JOIN GRIEF COCOON, my new monthly virtual support session - a sacred space for grief in busy lives: https://tanyawilkinson.co.uk/grief-cocoon DOWNLOAD MY FREE Grief, Grace & Growth journaling ebook: https://tanyawilkinson.co.uk/grief-grace-growth-journal GUIDED GRIEF MEDITATIONS PLAYLIST: https://youtu.be/JdQ60u1eHf8?si=72qCHQ5fV87Qdo-n GUIDED "FIND YOUR SAFE PLACE" MEDITATION: https://youtu.be/RO1G2oAOIEU Disclaimer: This podcast is for entertainment purposes only and does not constitute professional advice. Nor is it a substitute for professional support. Follow Death on the Daily: Do Like, Comment & Subscribe to this channel @deathonthedaily Share this episode with a friend who might need it. Subscribe to my Substack: https://open.substack.com/pub/deathonthedaily/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tanyawilkinson_ YouTube: http://youtube.com/@deathonthedaily Find out about my work as a Grief & Life Transitions Coach and connect with me here: https://www.tanyawilkinson.co.uk The theme music for Death on the Daily is ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Set Free by Katie Gray⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, which is used with artist's permission. You can connect with Katie and her music and work here ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.katiegray.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. This podcast is edited by David Strutt, who you can contact here for any editing needs: davidstrutt2@gmail.com CHAPTERS: 0:00: Grieving Someone Who Is Still Alive 0:35: Welcome to Death on the Daily 1:10: My Personal Story: Dementia & Anticipatory Grief 2:15: What Is Anticipatory Grief? 3:20: The 3 Hidden Realities of Pre-Death Loss 4:45: Why Society Fails Caregivers Before a Funeral 5:50: Tool 1: Separate 'Grieving the Past' from 'Meeting the Moment' 7:30: Tool 2: Releasing the 'Guilt of Living' 9:10: Tool 3: Naming the Loss As It Happens 10:35: How Employers & Friends Must Step Up 12:15: A Final Message for Every Caregiver

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  What 3 years of grief taught me about courage vs “strength”… (solo episode)

  Sep 11, 202624 min

  What does grief actually make of us when we stop trying to "be strong" and start meeting our pain with a courage that allows for the messy and vulnerable parts? Three years after the devastating death of my daughter, Ngākau Raiona (lioness heart) due to a severe birth defect that was diagnosed at her 20 week scan, I’m sitting down to honour what would be her 3rd birthday by sharing the 4 most profound lessons in grief that have completely transformed my life — not despite my grief, but because of it. If you are currently wading through loss and grief — whether you are in the raw early days, years down the path, or simply trying to navigate a major life transition—this episode offers a deeply compassionate reframe. We break down why society’s obsession with "strength" is actually holding you back from real healing, how catastrophic loss strips away who you were to reveal a truer version of yourself, and why rebuilding your life takes its own sacred timeline. I also open up about a deeply personal update on our journey into IVF as bereaved parents, navigating PTSD and infertility, and how we can learn to resource our bodies when facing an uncertain future. KEY TAKEAWAYS & JOURNALING PROMPTS FOR HEALING: Courage Over Strength: Strength resists being moved; courage is the mental and heart-centered willingness to take the very next step, even when you're on your hands and knees. The Identity Shift: Ask yourself today: What is grief currently spotlighting in my life about what is and isn't important to carry forward? Body Connection: Learn to listen to your body’s nervous system when making restoration-based life changes or big decisions. COMMUNITY QUESTION: Where are you currently at in your grief journey? What resonated most with you from today's conversation? Drop a comment below—I read and respond to every single one Are you journeying with grief? DOWNLOAD MY FREE Grief, Grace & Growth journaling ebook: https://tanyawilkinson.co.uk/grief-grace-growth-journal GUIDED GRIEF MEDITATIONS PLAYLIST: https://youtu.be/JdQ60u1eHf8?si=72qCHQ5fV87Qdo-n GUIDED "FIND YOUR SAFE PLACE" MEDITATION: https://youtu.be/RO1G2oAOIEU Disclaimer: This podcast is for entertainment purposes only and does not constitute professional advice. Nor is it a substitute for professional support. Follow Death on the Daily: Do Like, Comment & Subscribe to this channel @deathonthedaily Share this episode with a friend who might need it. Subscribe to my Substack: https://open.substack.com/pub/deathonthedaily/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tanyawilkinson_ YouTube: http://youtube.com/@deathonthedaily Find out about my work as a Grief & Life Transitions Coach and connect with me here: https://www.tanyawilkinson.co.uk The theme music for Death on the Daily is ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Set Free by Katie Gray⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, which is used with artist's permission. You can connect with Katie and her music and work here ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.katiegray.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. This podcast is edited by David Strutt, who you can contact here for any editing needs: davidstrutt2@gmail.com Chapters: 00:00 : Intro: Walking through the thresholds of grief 02:38 : Courage vs. Strength: Why "being strong" can be a trap and why courage allows space for your scars 07:20 : Unearthing Truer Versions of Yourself: How loss acts as a transformative portal for identity 12:11 : The Lifelong Tattoo of Grief: Why it’s normal for loss to still feel surreal years later 15:20 : Rebuilding on Your Own Timeline: Resisting societal pressure to "move on" 16:49 : Personal Share: Entering IVF after loss, body connection, and preparing your internal toolkit

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  Guided mindful walk for grief and other hard days

  Aug 28, 202616 min

  If today feels heavy, overwhelming, or filled with grief, give yourself permission to step into the slow lane. This guided walking meditation is a gentle, moving practice designed to help you reconnect with the world through all five senses. Whether you are navigating grief & loss, challenging life transitions, or simply a stressful and exhausting day, this session invites you to drop your shoulders, expand your horizon, and let the earth support you and your steps. If you are unable to walk, simply find a beautiful spot in nature to sit in, or soak up the view through a window. This practice has been designed to meet you where you are. If this meditation supports you, please like, subscribe, or share it with someone who might need it too. Safety notice: Please practice this walk only in a safe, familiar environment. Keep your volume low and keep at least one earbud out so you remain fully aware of your surroundings at all times. Disclaimer: This content is for entertainment and informational purposes only and does not constitute medical, psychological, or therapeutic advice. This practice invites gentle awareness of your body and surroundings. Before you begin, check in with yourself and see whether it feels right for you to do this guided meditation today. You know yourself best - trust what feels right for you. This walking meditation is not a substitute for professional mental health care. What This Meditation Is For Navigating Heavy Days: A safe space when you're experiencing grief, emotional overwhelm, or difficult life transitions. Finding Grounding: Reconnecting your mind to your physical body through slow, intentional steps and the 5 senses exploration. Breaking Tunnel Vision: Shifting out of stressed "fight-or-flight" focus by expanding your peripheral gaze. A Gentle Pause: Giving yourself permission to step into the "slow lane" without any expectation to be strong. Follow Death on the Daily: Do Like, Comment & Subscribe to this channel @deathonthedaily Share this episode with a friend who might need it. Subscribe to my Substack: https://open.substack.com/pub/deathonthedaily/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tanyawilkinson_ YouTube: http://youtube.com/@deathonthedaily Find out about my work as a Grief & Life Transitions Coach and connect with me here: https://www.tanyawilkinson.co.uk This podcast is edited by David Strutt, who you can contact here for any editing needs: davidstrutt2@gmail.com Chapters: 00:00: Welcome 01:10: Meditation Starts: Stepping into the Slow Lane (Pacing Your Breath) 06:05: The 5 Senses Practice (Sight, Sound, Touch, Smell, Taste)

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  Grief 101: The truth about loss that no one taught us

  Aug 1, 202618 min

  Have you ever felt completely confused by your grief? Or are you supporting someone who's grieving and don't know where to start? This is my Grief 101 - everything I wish I'd been taught about grief long before grief became part of my life. I'm Tanya Wilkinson, AC, IPHM and ACCPH certified Grief and Life transitions coach and bereaved mother to my daughter Ngākau Raiona (lioness heart in Māori). In this episode I share my 5 Grief Essentials: Grief is more than temporary sadness — grief is a full mind, body and spirit experience, showing up as anger, numbness, brain fog, a dysregulated nervous system, and even deep joy. Grief doesn't end, it integrates — using Lois Tonkin's "Growing Around Grief" model to explain why grief isn't linear and doesn't need to shrink or disappear. Grief is unique to each of us — exploring instrumental vs intuitive grieving styles, and how to spot when either tips into avoidance. Presence and curiosity beats avoiding or fixing — practical language for supporting a griever, including how to ask permission to check in. Their name matters — why saying the name of someone's person or pet, and continuing bonds practices, matter so deeply in grief. Whether you're grieving, supporting someone who is, or just want the language and tools around grief that none of us were taught growing up — this episode is for you. Are you journeying with grief? JOIN GRIEF COCOON, my new monthly virtual support session - a sacred space for grief in busy lives: https://tanyawilkinson.co.uk/grief-cocoon DOWNLOAD MY FREE Grief, Grace & Growth journaling ebook: https://tanyawilkinson.co.uk/grief-grace-growth-journal GUIDED GRIEF MEDITATIONS PLAYLIST: https://youtu.be/JdQ60u1eHf8?si=72qCHQ5fV87Qdo-n GUIDED "FIND YOUR SAFE PLACE" MEDITATION: https://youtu.be/RO1G2oAOIEU Disclaimer: This podcast is for entertainment purposes only and does not constitute professional advice. Nor is it a substitute for professional support. Follow Death on the Daily: Do Like, Comment & Subscribe to this channel @deathonthedaily Share this episode with a friend who might need it. Subscribe to my Substack: https://open.substack.com/pub/deathonthedaily/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tanyawilkinson_ YouTube: http://youtube.com/@deathonthedaily Find out about my work as a Grief & Life Transitions Coach and connect with me here: https://www.tanyawilkinson.co.uk The theme music for Death on the Daily is ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Set Free by Katie Gray⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, which is used with artist's permission. You can connect with Katie and her music and work here ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.katiegray.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. This podcast is edited by David Strutt, who you can contact here for any editing needs: davidstrutt2@gmail.com Chapters: 00:00: Introduction to Grief and Why It Matters02:20: Understanding All Forms of Loss and Transition04:16: Grief as Love and Its Variations05:14: Physical and Emotional Manifestations of Grief06:40: Secondary Losses and Their Impact08:04: The Non-Linear Nature of Grief: Lois Tonkin's Grow Around Grief Model10:00: Unique Grieving Styles: Instrumental and Intuitive12:17: Supporting Grievers with Presence and Curiosity13:10: The Power of Saying Their Name16:27: Final Thoughts and Resources for Grief Support

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  Grieving a parent you never knew with Miranda Malone | Preverbal loss

  Jul 23, 202647 min

  She has no memories of her mother's voice, her laugh, or ever being held by her. Miranda Malone - clinical therapist, hypnotherapist, "dead mom girly," and founder of the Dead Mom Club - lost her mum Rosalie when she was just five months old. In this episode of Death on the Daily, Miranda and I go deep into what it means to grieve a parent you never consciously knew: how preverbal loss roots itself into the nervous system, why so many early-loss daughters become high achievers as a way of outrunning the feeling, and how to tell if a relationship is safe enough to hold your grief. We also talk about grief rituals (including the coffee ritual that made her famous), micro-dosing grief instead of saving it for the big anniversaries, and the permission slips every griever deserves to give themselves. Are you journeying with grief? JOIN GRIEF COCOON, my new monthly virtual support session - a sacred space for grief in busy lives: https://tanyawilkinson.co.uk/grief-cocoon DOWNLOAD MY FREE Grief, Grace & Growth journaling ebook: https://tanyawilkinson.co.uk/grief-grace-growth-journal GUIDED "FIND YOUR SAFE PLACE" MEDITATION: https://youtu.be/RO1G2oAOIEU Disclaimer: This podcast is for entertainment purposes only and does not constitute professional advice. Nor is it a substitute for professional support. In this episode: What it's like to grieve someone you have zero conscious memory of Why early mother-loss often creates "high-functioning overachievers" How to spot whether someone is safe to grieve in front of Practical grief rituals: the coffee ritual, digital altars, and "micro-dosing" grief Spirituality, soul contracts, and what her mum might think of her life now The permission slips every griever needs to hear Follow Death on the Daily: Do Like, Comment & Subscribe to this channel @deathonthedaily Share this episode with a friend who might need it. Subscribe to my Substack: https://open.substack.com/pub/deathonthedaily/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tanyawilkinson_ YouTube: http://youtube.com/@deathonthedaily Find out about my work as a Grief & Life Transitions Coach and connect with me here: https://www.tanyawilkinson.co.uk You can connect with Miranda Malone here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deadmomtherapist Check out Miranda's website for her offerings including membership, plus merch: https://www.mirandamalone.com The theme music for Death on the Daily is ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Set Free by Katie Gray⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, which is used with artist's permission. You can connect with Katie and her music and work here ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.katiegray.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. This podcast is edited by David Strutt, who you can contact here for any editing needs: davidstrutt2@gmail.com Chapters: 0:00 – Intro: growing up with no memory of your mother 1:20 – Miranda's story: losing her mum at 5 months old 2:37 – Grief that lives in the body, not just memory 5:32 – High-functioning grief and the overachiever pattern 8:32 – Grief, empathy, and vulnerability to toxic relationships 10:26 – The "safe person" checkpoint: can they hold your grieving inner child? 14:32 – How to show up for a grieving friend, even years later 19:10 – Fragments, stories, and building a picture of who they were 22:28 – Becoming older than your mother ever lived to be 23:31 – Soul contracts and what her mum might think of her life now 26:13 – Storytelling, graveyards, and immortalising the people we've lost 29:23 – Positive nihilism and making peace with being forgotten 32:18 – Numbing out vs. spiritual connection through grief 35:57 – The coffee ritual — how it started and what it means 39:16 – Microdosing grief instead of saving it for the big days 40:26 – Restorative vs. performative: the test for any grief ritual 41:13 – The permission slips every griever deserves

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