Complex Couples Podcast

If you’ve wondered what you could have done differently after your spouse cheated, there may be a reason that question is so compelling. When a spouse steps outside the marriage, it’s easy to look back at yourself and...

A phone call from a friend cracked open something I'd believed my whole life.  This episode walks through a real conversation that challenged how I think about infidelity, specifically for those in mixed...

If your life looks normal from the outside but something inside you has quietly fallen apart, this episode is for you.  The kind of grief you’re experiencing has a specific name.   In This Episode Why and how...

Have you ever watched your spouse come alive around someone else and wondered, "Why don't they look at me like that?" This week, Daniel and I have an honest conversation about jealousy, friendship, freedom, and what...

Why do some comments stay with you long after they're said? In this episode, I explore why other people's opinions can feel so personal. And how understanding what's happening beneath the surface can help you respond...

When you discover your husband is gay, your wife is a lesbian, or your spouse is transgender, it can feel like your entire world has been turned upside down. Questions come quickly. Emotions come even faster.  You...

What if the story you've been carrying isn't the only way to understand what's happening? Sometimes the smallest shift changes everything. There are moments in relationships when it's easy to believe someone else's...

Have you ever thought about how the same word can mean something completely different to the person hearing it than it does to the person saying it? YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/zFZwk6KBzvQ   In this episode, Daniel...

Upcoming Workshop: Understanding the Real Conflict  Register here ➡ https://www.ComplexCouplesCoaching.com/workshop There's a kind of self-deception that has nothing to do with making excuses, and I want to walk...

Upcoming Workshop: Understanding the Real Conflict. Learn a tool you'll use again and again. Space is limited. Register now ➡ https://www.ComplexCouplesCoaching.com/workshop   Most couples come into my office...

Reminder!  Join a live workshop with Heidi on June 24th! Click HERE to register What happens when one spouse needs answers and the other doesn't have them? How do couples navigate difficult conversations when there...

<p>Attend a live workshop with Heidi. Register ➡ HERE! Space is limited.</p> <p>How do you respond when your spouse sees the marriage differently than you do? </p> <p>In this episode, I explore why trying to convince...

<p>Why do some relationship conflicts feel so emotionally charged and personal?</p> <p>Today we explore the idea that conflict is often not “me vs you,” but rather “me vs me”. In other words, “self vs self” instead of...

<p>Interested in private coaching?<br>Learn more ➡ https://www.complexcouplescoaching.com/coaching-application </p> <p>What do you do when something in conflict genuinely doesn’t feel right, and you want to deal with it...

<p>How do you decide whether to tell your kids about same-sex attraction, mixed-orientation marriage, or other deeply personal family realities? </p> <p>In this episode, we share how we navigated those conversations...