Oct 23, 202632 minS1
Mismatched Desire: Dreading the Reach and Disappointing the Person You Love “My partner wants more sex than I do, and I’ve started dreading the moment he reaches for me because I know I’m going to disappoint him again.”...
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Ask Jess and Dave
Hosted by Jessica Fern and David Cooley · education · EN-US
11 episodesAudience: 2
About this Podcast:
Ask Jess & Dave is the show where nothing's too awkward, too messy, or too human to unpack. Whether you're navigating love, healing old wounds, or just trying to figure yourself out — Jess and Dave are here to tackle your burning questions about love, healing, and the beautiful chaos of becoming a better you. No judgment. No jargon. Just honest conversation, a few laughs, and maybe the insight you didn't know you were looking for.
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What is Ask Jess and Dave about?
Ask Jess & Dave is the show where nothing's too awkward, too messy, or too human to unpack. Whether you're navigating love, healing old wounds, or just trying to figure yourself out, Jess and Dave are here to tackle your burning questions about love, healing, and the beautiful chaos of becoming a better you. No judgment. No jargon.
Who hosts Ask Jess and Dave?
Ask Jess and Dave is hosted by Jessica Fern and David Cooley. The show has published 11 episodes to date.
What has Ask Jess and Dave covered recently?
Recent episodes include "Ask J&D Episode 11: What Do I Do When My Partner Wants More Sex Than I Do?" (23 October 2026, 32 minutes), "Ask J&D Episode 10: Where Did Self Go?: Why Conflict With a Partner Hijacks Years of Parts Work" (7 October 2026, 50 minutes), and "Ask J&D Episode 9: What Do You Do When Your Wife Says She Wants To Be A Lesbian?" (31 August 2026, 28 minutes).
How often does Ask Jess and Dave publish?
Ask Jess and Dave publishes roughly every two weeks, with episodes averaging 39 minutes across 11 episodes.
How hard is it to get booked on Ask Jess and Dave?
Booking probability for Ask Jess and Dave is 28%, and the host is rated Selective on guests. Ask Jess and Dave requires a Pod Score of 80 or higher. Ask Jess and Dave's contact route on record: verified email.
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The strongest fits for Ask Jess and Dave are Family & Social Services. Ask Jess and Dave has an education audience.
About the host
Jessica Fern and David Cooley hosts Ask Jess and Dave, an education podcast with 11 episodes published.
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Episode #10
Ask J&D Episode 10: Where Did Self Go?: Why Conflict With a Partner Hijacks Years of Parts Work
Oct 7, 202650 minS1You've spent years learning to identify your parts, unblend from them, and access Self-energy with increasing reliability. And then your partner says that thing, in that tone, and suddenly Self is nowhere to be found...
- Aug 31, 202628 minS1
What happens when a long-term marriage is transformed not by conflict or growing apart — but by one partner coming out as a lesbian? In Episode 9 of The Ask Jess & Dave Show, we respond to a man writing in after his...
- Aug 11, 20261h 13mS1
What does it actually take to heal from infidelity? And what happens when the person who caused the betrayal isn't willing to end the relationship that caused it? In Episode 8 of The Ask Jess & Dave Show, we are joined...
- Jul 17, 202642 minS1
What if the way we talk to our kids about friendships, crushes, and conflict could actually shape how they relate to themselves and others for the rest of their lives?In Episode 7 of The Ask Jess & Dave Show, we respond...
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What if doing the work isn't enough? For anxious-avoidant couples, individual healing can only go so far. Because the trigger isn't just inside you — it's in the space between you. In Episode 5 of The Ask Jess & Dave...
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- Jun 15, 202628 minS1
In Episode 3 of The Ask Jess & Dave Show, we explore one of the most quietly painful and under-discussed dynamics in long-term relationships. Because the real question isn't just about sex — it's about what the absence...
- Jun 15, 202629 minS1
Do you and your partner keep fighting about the same things — and can't even agree on what actually happened? Or maybe someone in the relationship keeps assuming they know exactly what their partner thinks or feels, and...
- Jun 15, 202634 minS1
In this first episode of Ask Jess and Dave, we dig into the question: What is criticism really doing in a relationship? Not as a communication style to be managed or a bad habit to be curbed, but as a signal — a warning...
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