
Date Night or Me Night?
Whether you’re single, in a relationship, or somewhere in between, this episode has something for you! Will and I are sharing fun date ideas, creative gifts, and ways to treat yourself—because love isn’t just for couples

Hosted by Mel · 🇺🇸 US · EN · 31 episodes
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” Your Mess or Mine?” is a podcast that dives into the full spectrum of relationships - family, friends, work, and romance. We've expanded beyond dating to explore every dynamic that shapes our lives. Through real stories, expert insight, and listener questions, we help you navigate the messiness of human connection with understanding and growth.
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Whether you’re single, in a relationship, or somewhere in between, this episode has something for you! Will and I are sharing fun date ideas, creative gifts, and ways to treat yourself—because love isn’t just for couples

In this playful episode we're diving into the ultimate fantasy draft-but make it dating! Join us as we build our dream partners, one hilarious and quirky trait at a time. From personality must-haves to ridiculous red fla

Should you date a coworker? Or is it a one-way ticket to drama-ville?And what about toxic workplaces-how do you protect yourself when the problem is bad management? Will and I spill the tea on workplace relationships and

The holidays are a time for joy, connection, and celebration-but let's be real, they can also come with their fair share of challenges. This week, Will and I sit down with our guest Tatiana, who shares her story about de

AND I'M BACK WITH YOUR NEW CO-HOST WILL!!!! Will and I discuss real struggles in attempting to date as an introvert, mending relationships, and how you can feel stuck when you're in an abusive relationship. Domestic viol

SEASON 2 FINALE - Gabriel, Vikki, and I discuss our experiences with breadcrumbing. Topics: Breadcrumbing, proper etiquette when scheduling a date, double booking, ghosting, place holders, and dating apps. Speed dating e

Gabriel and I discuss the difference between being broken up with and being discarded. Topics: Cuffing season, avoidant attachment, narcissists, discard phase, talk therapy, getting over a breakup. If you'd like to be a

Gabriel and I interview Ashely as she shares her experience in her very new relationship. Although the distance is what ended her previous relationship she's hoping this new one will go the distance for her. Topics: Dati

Topics: New relationships, including how to introduce your child to someone you're dating. Belinda and I share 4 expert tips on how to navigate a new relationship. If you'd like to be a guest on the show or have a topic

Topics: Unveiling the 3-month rule. Weighing the benefits and drawbacks of delaying intimacy. Gabriel and I explore four pros and cons of waiting three months for intimacy...timing matters. If you'd like to be a guest on

Topics: Narcissistic abuse, trauma bond, signs of a narcissist. Belinda and I share our experiences being in a relationship with a narcissist, how we recognized it was toxic, and our journey through the process. If you a

Topics: overthinking text messages, toxic relationships, breakups, and how to help calm an overthinker. If you'd like to be a guest on the show or have a topic request please email us at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you

Topics: texting etiquette, co-dependency, working on personal development, overthinking text messages, and being secure in yourself. Personal trainer: Jos Wise If you'd like to be a guest on the show or have a topic requ

Men and women share their stories of best and worst first dates - live from The Archibald If you'd like to be a guest on the show or have a topic request please email me at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can join my p

Topics: Ghosting, attachment styles, and calling it quits. Gabriel and I talk about our thoughts on ghosting and having open communication. Book: Attachment Theory https://a.co/d/hsixcKK If you'd like to be a guest on th

Topics: Phone etiquette, drinking, and appropriate conversations. Gabriel and I discuss the dos & don'ts that have been helpful for us over the years for our first dates. If you'd like to be a guest on the show or have a

Topics: Blocking exes, lifestyle choices while dating, cuffing season, and trying to be nice while holding your boundaries strong. Part 5: an attempt to date men in their 60's Join me and my co-host Gabriel while we disc


A single guy shares his experience dating on the spectrum. Topics: Dating with Autism/ADHD, catfishing, and dating apps. If you'd like to be a guest on the show please email me at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can jo

Topics: Emotionally unavailable, friends with benefits, dating guys your friends have hooked up with, giving someone another chance, dating as a single parent, and dating men in their 40's and 50's. Part 4 dating a guy i
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