
Episode #118
Episode 118 - Help Your Child Know God for Themselves with Batsirai and Aimee Chada ~Part 2
Date: September 29, 2026 Podcast Show Notes: Interview with Batsirai and Aimee Chada, Part 2 Story Highlights: What if some of the most spiritually meaningful moments in your child's life are happening in the most ordinary places, like bedtime? In Part 2 of this heartfelt conversation on The Women Behind the Words, Debbie Dufek welcomes back Batsirai and Aimee Chada, founders of AlreadyLoved, to talk about one of the most important gifts a parent can give: helping children understand that their identity is rooted in God's love. (Missed Part 1? Go back and listen to Episode 117.) This is Christian parenting in real life, when everyone is tired, emotions are running high, and things don't go according to plan. Debbie, Batsirai, and Aimee explore how everyday moments can become opportunities to plant seeds of identity, connection, faith, and security in a child's heart. Batsirai introduces the idea of a "sacred window," the many bedtime moments parents share with young children that can become powerful opportunities for connection and spiritual formation. Rather than waiting for the perfect spiritual moment, Batsirai and Aimee encourage parents to see that God is already present in ordinary family life. The conversation also gets wonderfully honest. Debbie opens up about times when anxiety, exhaustion, and the feeling of losing control led her to react rather than respond as the parent she wanted to be. Aimee shares how her own childhood shaped her parenting, and why healing and understanding our identity in Christ can help us become healthier parents. In this episode, Debbie, Batsirai, and Aimee discuss: Choosing connection over simply correcting behavior Recognizing the spiritual opportunities hidden in ordinary moments Responding rather than reacting when our kids push our buttons Understanding the stories and beliefs underneath our parenting reactions Apologizing and repairing when we get it wrong Letting go of the need to always be right (this one is huge) Modeling healthy reconciliation for our children Why quality moments of connection can matter more than quantity Keeping intentional spiritual connection going throughout the week, not just on Sunday A theme that runs through the entire conversation is repair. Children learn not only by watching their parents get along, but by watching them reconnect after conflict. Batsirai and Aimee use the picture of a rubber band being stretched and released to show how a relationship can hold tension without losing connection. About Our Guests: Batsirai and Aimee Chada are the husband-and-wife founders of AlreadyLoved and parents of two. They became expectant parents just three months into dating while in Bible college, which led them to a question that would shape their calling: how do you keep "unplanned" from becoming "unwanted" in a child's heart? Today, Batsirai and Aimee help Christian parents move beyond secondhand faith so their children can know God for themselves and grow up rooted in how deeply they are loved. Book Spotlight: Already Loved by Batsirai and Aimee Chada Already Loved is a personalized hardcover book that helps children discover who they are in God's eyes. Inspired in part by Batsirai and Aimee's own family experience with their son, Jaden, the book walks children through ten foundational truths, including "You are already loved" and "You are never alone." Each book is personalized with your child's name, photo, and details, so they see themselves right there in the story. Rather than simply teaching facts about God, Already Loved helps parents introduce their children to Him relationally. It's a natural fit for the sacred bedtime moments Batsirai and Aimee talk about in this episode. Special Listener Offer: AlreadyLoved is giving Women Behind the Words listeners $10 off a personalized Already Loved book. Use code BEHINDWORDS at checkout at alreadylovedkids.com. A Word for Parents: If you're exhausted, if bedtime feels chaotic, or if you sometimes wonder whether you're doing enough spiritually with your children, this conversation is for you. You don't have to create perfect moments. You don't have to have all the right words. You don't have to get it right every time. Look for the moments of connection God has already placed in front of you. He is Emmanuel, God with us, and He can meet you and your children right in the middle of ordinary family life. Questions to Consider: What ordinary moments with my children could become opportunities for deeper connection? Am I more focused on correcting behavior or connecting with my child's heart? What tends to cause me to react rather than respond? Is there something from my own childhood that may be influencing the way I parent today? Have I modeled apology, forgiveness, and reconciliation for my children? How can I intentionally remind my child this week that they are already loved by God? Scripture to Consider: "For the Lord is good. His unfailing love continues forever, and his faithfulness continues to each generation." (Psalm 100:5 NLT) Connect with Batsirai and Aimee: Website: https://alreadylovedkids.com Podcast and Guest Background: https://alreadylovedkids.com/podcast Instagram: @alreadylovedkids Listener Code: BEHINDWORDS for $10 off at checkout Closing Thought: Our children are watching, listening, and receiving seeds of their identity in the ordinary moments we share with them. Those moments may not feel extraordinary to us, but God can use them to shape a child's understanding of who they are, who He is, and what it means to be loved.

