Comedy
Comedy · EN · 471 episodes
Love and dating can be messy—so let’s talk about it! On this multi-award-winning podcast, comedian Nicole Byer explores romantic highs, lows, and all the juicy stuff in between, alongside comedians, experts, and sometimes an ex or two. Tune in for first-date fails, heartbreak confessions, and the real talk you never knew you needed. New episodes every Friday!
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Booking probability
44%
Guest openness
Selective
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Signup to Generate a PitchLove and dating can be messy, so let’s talk about it! On this multi-award-winning podcast, comedian Nicole Byer explores romantic highs, lows, and all the juicy stuff in between, alongside comedians, experts, and sometimes an ex or two. Tune in for first-date fails, heartbreak confessions, and the real talk you never knew you needed. New episodes every Friday!
Recent episodes include "Date with a Dominatrix (w/ Adam Conover)" (23 October 2026, 83 minutes), "I Wanna Be a Slut (w/ Lisa Hanawalt)" (16 October 2026, 51 minutes), and "Grilling Nicole's Man (w/ Ms. Pat)" (2 October 2026, 53 minutes).
Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer publishes roughly weekly, with episodes averaging 65 minutes across 471 episodes.
Booking probability for Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer is 44%, and the host is rated Selective on guests. Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer requires a Pod Score of 80 or higher. Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer's contact route on record: public web form.
Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer is a comedy show with 471 episodes published.
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Episode #464
Three weeks after ending a 15-year relationship, comedian Adam Conover (Adam Ruins Everything, Factually! ) went on a date with a 6'3" dominatrix whose first question was how he wanted to be dominated. He joins Nicole...
Episode #467
Illustrator and friend Lisa Hanawalt (Bojack Horseman, Tuca & Bertie) returns to the podcast to chat about starting fresh in the dating scene after a 15-year relationship with Adam Conover, and what happened when they...
Episode #461
Comedian Ms. Pat joins Nicole to reveal the true secret to surviving a 33-year marriage, shares the brutal realities of menopause nobody talks about, and interrogates Nicole and the nice man in her life about why they...
Episode #460
We’ve all heard the persistent dating mandate that the ideal man needs to be over 6ft tall. But what happens when you’re a 6"2 woman facing a dating pool of tall men who have coasted by on their height alone? According...
Episode #459
Drag queen icon BenDeLaCreme (Drag Race 6, All-Stars 3) joins Nicole to spill some major breaking news: they've been secretly separated from her partner of 8 years. They talk about the effort it takes to try to stay...
Episode #458
Why Won't You Date Me is taking a quick break this week while Nicole is out of town filming, but we'd never leave you high and dry! Instead, Nicole is sharing one of her all-time favorite episodes of her other podcast...
Episode #457
YouTuber Jarvis Johnson (Host of Sad Boyz ) joins Nicole to discuss the dystopian reality of how AI has changed the dating landscape, from people now dating their AI and the trend of men using ChatGPT to automatically...
Episode #455
Nicole's photographer, Kim Newmoney (VOGUE, #VERYFAT #VERYBRAVE) chats with her about the logistics and managing a harem of 7 hot men. They talk about men who claim they want casual relationships but get territorial...
Episode #453
Comedian and writer Eliot Glazer (Broad City, New Girl) returns to the podcast! He shares how a group blind date quickly turned into a one-on-one nightmare with a horrible, drunk Jubilee "celebrity." Plus, Elliot and...
Episode #451
Comedian Devon Walker (SNL, Big Mouth) returns to the podcast to join Nicole for a chat about "goblintimacy", the new dating trend where you skip putting your best foot forward. Nicole shares the details of her...
Episode #451
Drag queen Lydia B Kollins (Drag Race S17, All Stars S10) joins Nicole to spill the behind-the-scenes tea on her iconic Drag Race showmance with Kori King. Find out just how strict production really is when it comes to...
Episode #454
Drag queen icon Willam (Drag Race S4, host of Race Chasers ) returns! She joins Nicole to break down the mathematical formula for the optimal orgy, the proper etiquette for passing good trade around to your drag...
Episode #445
Drag queen June Jambalaya (Drag Race S14) joins Nicole to discuss hiding her drag career from her dates, being engaged twice, and leaving her fiancé to compete on Drag Race. Plus, Nicole and June discuss the best city...
Episode #448
Comedian and friend Liza Treyger ( Night Owl , host of That's Messed Up ) returns to the podcast! She shares her sobering experience hiring a Zoom stripper for a bachelorette party, how Heated Rivalry changed her life...
Episode #447
Drag queen icon Bosco (Drag Race S14, All Stars S10) makes her return to toss even more shade. She shares why the secret to polished drag is having mean friends, how to filter out dumb men in your dating life, and...
Episode #446
Comedian Sabrina Jalees (Mating Season) returns to the podcast! Sabrina talks about how she and her wife made a family, including picking out a sperm donor and performing a home insemination using a dog catheter. They...
Episode #445
You ready for some good juju? This week, iconic drag queen Jujubee (Drag Race, Stop! That! Train!) joins Nicole to talk about the power of self-love and why she’s officially stopped looking for a relationship. Nicole...
Episode #444
Drag queen Trixie Mattel (Drag Race S7, All Stars 3) returns to the podcast! After experiencing how exhausting it is to navigate a private breakup while smiling through a press tour, Trixie opens up about why she is now...
Episode #443
Tracie Thoms (RENT, The Devil Wears Prada 2) joins Nicole to discuss her 8-year journey to join the iconic cast of RENT, the wild logic men use to avoid commitment, and why some of them want all the benefits of a...
Episode #442
World famous relationship therapist Esther Perel has been studying relationships for over 40 years. She joins Nicole to share the most common problems couples seek therapy for, the 3 types of conflicts we fight over...
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