
Hyper-independence can show up in the everyday habit of doing everything yourself. Why does asking for help feel so uncomfortable when you’re happy to offer it? Since my conversation with Rachel Mason, I’ve been...


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Why Aren’t We Talking About This? is a series of honest conversations about the stuff we rarely discuss but probably should - big feelings, weird thoughts, life, death, and all the messy, beautiful parts of being human. Hosted by me, Carly Osman-Holme, on a quest to dodge a full-blown existential crisis. I’ve reached that point in life where I’m asking the big questions: How did I get here? What do I actually want? And why didn’t they teach us any of this in school?
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Signup to Generate a PitchWhy Aren’t We Talking About This? is a series of honest conversations about the stuff we rarely discuss but probably should - big feelings, weird thoughts, life, death, and all the messy, beautiful parts of being human. Hosted by me, Carly Osman-Holme, on a quest to dodge a full-blown existential crisis.
Recent episodes include "Hyper-independence: When “I can manage” becomes “I don’t need anyone” | I’ve been thinking about this…" (29 October 2026, 3 minutes), "Why do I say I’m fine when I’m not? Asking for Help | Rachel Mason" (29 October 2026, 32 minutes), and "Why aren't we talking about this? Is this it?" (22 October 2026, 38 minutes).
Why aren’t we talking about this publishes roughly weekly, with episodes averaging 33 minutes across 31 episodes.
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Why aren’t we talking about this is a society podcast with 31 episodes published.
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Hyper-independence can show up in the everyday habit of doing everything yourself. Why does asking for help feel so uncomfortable when you’re happy to offer it? Since my conversation with Rachel Mason, I’ve been...

Asking for help can feel uncomfortable when you’re used to saying “I’m fine”. What happens when you need support but worry about being a burden? Rachel Mason took herself to her hysterectomy on the train. She also...

This is a live recording of ‘Why aren’t we talking about this’ recorded at Home, Life & You, at the ExCel in London. In this episode recorded with Nadia Patel, we're exploring a question that I suspect quite a few of us...

Episode #28
This week is Baby Loss Awareness Week. I've been brought to tears reading about the heartbreak of losing a baby who was so desperately wanted and continues to be so deeply loved. I wanted to mark the week it with an...

I seem to have two camps of friends. Broadly, there are the ones who’ve been in very long-term relationships, and then there are the ones who’ve recently become single and seem to be on this amazing mission to...

For most of us, psychedelics come with a lot of baggage. Drugs. Hippies. Bad trips. Losing control. Yet, there’s another conversation happening around them. One about perspective, identity, creativity, connection and...

“Enjoy your break.” It’s such a normal thing to say to someone going on maternity leave, except maternity leave isn’t really a break at all. It’s a period of enormous change, and underneath all the excitement there can...

There’s something slightly uncomfortable about saying, out loud, that you want more. More money. More success. More adventure. A bigger business. A bigger life. Because surely we should be grateful for what we already...

We spend a lot of our lives learning how to be good at things. We learn how to do our jobs, manage our money, raise children, cook, exercise, communicate better, sleep better. There is a book, podcast, course or expert...

<p >I'll be honest, my first reaction was suspicion.</p> <p >When Lorna Lyons told me she had a thriving business, earned well, and wasn't grinding every single day, something in me bristled.</p> <p >Is she a con...

Episode #20
<p >"She's so resilient. She's got it all together."</p> <p >That's the badge. And for a lot of high-functioning women, it's the thing that almost destroys them.</p> <p >When you've spent years accepting that label...

<p >"LinkedIn is a jealousy machine pretending to be a motivation machine."</p> <p >Ooofff.. yep.</p> <p >Award season rolls around. Amazing job announcements. That campaign you wish you'd thought of. Everyone...

Episode #18
<p >“Women, it's older women, and then it's urine- it’s the triple yuck”</p> <p >This is probably the most important conversation that I have had this year. I can not express how crucial it is that we change the whole...

<p >Sometimes a book finds you at exactly the moment you need it and Chaos was that for me.</p> <p >We all experience it. Those moments where everything feels uncertain, where something is shifting, ending, or asking...

<p >This week, we are doing something a bit different. I am talking about me. Why did I, at 41, decide to start a podcast… and start sharing stories about myself, revealing insecurities, and basically how despite now...

<p>Stories are how we make sense of what’s happening to us.</p> <p>But when something hard hits, most of us go quiet. We tell ourselves we’ll share it later- when we understand it, when it feels less raw, when there’s a...

<p>We’ve normalised something quite strange.</p> <p>We take photos of our children constantly. First steps, first days of school, the in-between moments that feel too important to lose. And then we share them. Not...

<p>Everywhere you turn there’s judgement - do less, do more, be thinner, be softer, be stronger, be quieter, be grateful, be better. Society hands women a script and calls it choice, and we follow it: staying in careers...

<p >Grief. There is no one way to do it.</p> <p >And yet, when you’re in the thick of it, it’s so easy to feel like you’re getting it wrong - too much, too little, too emotional, too functional. Carrying on when you...

<p >Infertility is a complex topic. And while conversations and support around it have come a long way in the 9 years since I went through IVF, there’s still one side that remains largely closed off. Male...
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