
Episode #14
Am I a Psychopath?
A sports medicine journal has a term, "beautiful suffering," for what elite athletes experience during 24-plus-hour endurance events. This week Sue takes the lead with a question she's been sitting with since watching runners collapse in freezing rain at the 2018 Boston Marathon: are elite athletes wired differently, or is toughness something the rest of us can actually learn? The conversation moves through Corey Richards' memoir of surviving an avalanche and an undiagnosed mental illness, Steve Magness's case against the old "grit and bear it" model of toughness, Ksenija's years coaching football players and elite athletes through NLP and pattern interrupts, and why the answer to "is this person a psychopath" might just be "no, they've found a very efficient way to feel alive.” BOOKS MENTIONED: (As an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases) The Color of Everything by Corey Richards: https://amzn.to/4zlpZqA Do Hard Things by Steve Magness: https://amzn.to/3SExh8h Wild by Cheryl Strayed: https://amzn.to/461OdbM Flow by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi: https://amzn.to/4xCnw9p Mindset by Carol Dweck: https://amzn.to/4g3SEYc The Book of Joy by the Dalai Lama and Desmond Tutu: https://amzn.to/460DXR9 A Spool of Blue Thread by Anne Tyler: https://amzn.to/4x45nla Our Substack & Show Notes: https://transatlanticbookmarks.substack.com/ EXPLORE OUR HOSTS' WORK & READING LISTS • Read Ksenija's Novels: https://transatlanticbookmarks.substack.com/p/publications • Ksenija on Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/6449766.Ksenija_Popovi_ ️ ABOUT TRANSATLANTIC BOOKMARKS A brand new weekly literary podcast hosted by European novelist Ksenija Popović and American engineer Sue Graham Johnston. From opposite sides of the Atlantic, we bring you thoughtful, relaxed, and witty conversations about contemporary fiction, classic literature, award shortlists, and the human questions hiding inside the books we read. New episodes are released every week. CHAPTERS 00:00 Introduction 00:57 The Mindset of Elite Athletes 12:13 Debunking the Toughness Myth 16:11 Can the Mindset of Elite Athletes Be Taught? 19:45 Association and Dissociation 26:57 Pattern Interrupt 32:43 Achieving Flow 39:59 The Advantage of Personalized Approach 45:51 The Astonishing Power of the Mind 51:21 The Psychology of Basic Human Needs 01:02:49 When The Mindset Isn't There 01:08:16 The Dedication Conundrum 01:09:31 Recommendations





