
The UNspecial Podcast
Heartbreak and Hope: Embracing the Unknown
Connection Is the Intervention: DIR/Floortime, Behavior, and Supporting Parents | Ashley Gillespie (Bloom Developmental Center) On the Unspecial Podcast, host interviews Ashley Gillespie of Bloom Developmental Center about why connection—not just therapies or compliance—is foundational for autistic children’s development. Ashley shares how growing up with her profoundly autistic cousin Haley, who struggled with self-injury, limited services, and lifelong dependence in rural Texas, shaped her calling and led her from speech therapy and the public school system to parent coaching and DIR/Floortime. They discuss how behavior can be communication, why engagement differs from compliance, and how play, affect, and meeting a child in their interests can reduce challenging behaviors and build social-emotional and cognitive growth. Ashley explains DIR (Developmental Individual Differences and Relationships) and Floortime’s focus on self- and social-awareness, emphasizes supporting parents at home, and recounts being asked to leave a church that initially hosted her school, strengthening her faith while exposing systemic gaps in support.

