Episode #32
Sex Therapy and Couples Therapy Shouldn’t Be Separate
Couples can spend months or even years working on communication, conflict, and trust without ever talking about what is happening in their sex life. Once sexual concerns come up, their couples therapist may refer them to a sex therapist, almost as if sex is a separate problem that needs to be handed off to someone else. Part of the reason is that many couples therapists were never formally trained to talk about sex. That can leave couples doing important work on their emotional connection while their physical connection remains completely outside the conversation, even though the two are often affecting each other. In this episode of The RISE to Intimacy Podcast, I explain why sex therapy and couples therapy are often treated as two separate specialties and why I do not think that reflects how relationships actually work. I also clear up some common myths about what each type of therapy looks like in a session and why couples should not have to choose between addressing their emotional connection and their sex life. 1:59 – How traditional couples therapy differs from sex therapy 3:07 – The training gap most couples therapists face, and the road to sex therapy qualification that I had to travel 4:54 – Why these therapies shouldn’t be considered completely separate from each other 7:42 – Debunking four common myths about sex therapy and couples therapy 9:14 – The one thing you should take away from this episode Mentioned In Sex Therapy and Couples Therapy Shouldn’t Be Separate Sign up for The Quickie Book a Free 30-Minute Consult Leave a rating and review
