
The Plant Medicine For PTSD Podcast
48. Mike Elliott - You Can Be Numb for Decades and Never Know It
Mike Elliott was watching his own mind show him how to end his life. His wife of seven years had just walked out, he never saw it coming, and in the distress he kept seeing an image of a hose running from his tailpipe into his truck. Then a Shawn Mendes song came on, he threw his hands up, and said the first honest prayer of his life. Two days later his first coach showed up, and the whole trajectory of his life changed. In this episode, I sit down with Mike Elliott, a relationship expert and men's coach, for a conversation that runs from rock bottom to fatherhood. We get into why Mike was adopted twice before his first birthday, how he spent seven years treating his wife like a coaching client instead of loving her, and what numbness actually is, the kind you can drive around in for decades without noticing the check engine light. Mike breaks down his framework of initiation, integration, and inspiration, his idea of "life's report card," and why shame's entire job is to keep you isolated. If you've ever taken advice from someone who didn't actually live it, ever gone numb in your own body without knowing it, or ever wondered why the breakthroughs never seem to turn into real change, this one is about trauma healing, integration, and the slow work of growing up. It connects directly to the work we do with veterans, first responders, and trauma survivors learning to work intentionally with plant medicine. Guest Bio Mike Elliott is a relationship expert and men's coach who helps people build thriving relationships by teaching them to move from their head to their heart. He lives on five and a half acres in the Kootenays of British Columbia with his wife and their young son. After hitting rock bottom following the end of his first marriage, Mike rebuilt his life around what he calls relational authority, and now guides men through his program The Initiated Man and a podcast he co-hosts with his partner. Mike Elliott: itsmikeelliott.com Instagram: mikeelliott.relating Podcast: The Sacred We Podcast The Initiated Man (Mike's program): free for 7 days, then $97/month Thanks again for listening! Enrollment is open right now for our Mindful Microdosing Program, which has helped 250+ veterans, first responders, and trauma survivors overcome anxiety, depression, and PTSD. Visit https://www.becomingom.org/coaching for all the info and to get in touch with us. Or DM us the word INTERESTED on Instagram .






