
Episode #14
For Real: Helping Children Remain Their Authentic Selves in a Limiting World
The goal isn’t to make your kid “open up” — it’s to become the adult they actually want to talk to. Silence is hard. But rushing to fill it can make kids shut down even more.What helps: Listen for the story behind the behavior, not just the behavior. Validate the feeling without condoning the action. Ask, “What do you think?” and let them surprise you. Kids are always watching how we handle honesty, boundaries, and discomfort.Sometimes the most authentic thing you can do is pause, stay calm, and make room. Listen to the full conversation on parenting, authenticity, and how kids learn by watching us. Co-hosts Julie Ross and Dr. Elizabeth Cohen speak with author and nonprofit leader Alexander Kopelman about authenticity in childhood, parenting, and the systems that shape both. The conversation explores how kids learn selfhood, why unfiltered honesty is not the same as authenticity, and how adults can become safer, wiser people for children to turn to. In this episode, Alex shares the personal experiences that led him to write For Real, along with practical frameworks parents and educators can use to support children’s emotional development without shutting down their voice.






