
Episode #31
S2 · Ep 31: Consensual Non-Monogamy — Relationship Diversity Through An Art Therapist’s Lens | Elena Kourounis | The MindSpa Podcast
Monogamy is often treated as the only "serious" relationship option, but many people are quietly asking a bigger question: what if the relationship script we inherited doesn't actually fit? Tina Wilston sits down with Elena Kourounis, registered psychotherapist and art therapist at MindSpa Mental Health, and an author in Queer Worldmaking in Art Therapy , to talk about relationship diversity and how therapy can support couples, families, and individuals across many kinds of relationship structures.Elena breaks down consensual non-monogamy (CNM) in plain language, including the differences between swinging, open relationships, and polyamory. The conversation explores how mononormativity, patriarchy, and heteronormativity can teach ownership and competitiveness, and why those beliefs often show up as unfair "one-way" rules. Elena also shares the practical considerations that often get skipped online: sexual health conversations, time and money pressures, the role of metamours, and why "nesting partner" can be more respectful than ranking people as primary and secondary.Jealousy comes up too, not as a deal-breaker but as useful information. We talk about how to ask for reassurance, protect meaningful rituals, and build communication strong enough for difficult topics without ultimatums. Elena explains how art therapy can help when you don't yet have the words, and how clinicians can create safer spaces by asking "Who is in your relationship circle?" at intake and by representing more diverse family structures.If you've ever wondered whether CNM or polyamory could work for you, or why it might not, press play and think it through with us. Subscribe, share this episode with a friend, and leave a review. Then tell us: what would you need to feel truly safe in a relationship conversation like this? The MindSpa Podcast Thoughtful conversations about mental health, relationships, identity, healing, grounded in clinical expertise and steady human insight. Hosts Tina Wilston , M.Ed., Registered Psychotherapist Co-Owner, MindSpa Mental Health Centre https://www.linkedin.com/in/tinawilston/ https://www.instagram.com/tinawilstontherapy/ https://www.facebook.com/tinawilstontherapy/ Michelle Massunken , MSW, RSW Co-Owner, MindSpa Mental Health Centre https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-massunken-msw-rsw/ https://www.instagram.com/michellemassunken.therapy/ https://www.facebook.com/MichelleMassunken/ MindSpa Mental Health Centre Ottawa - Kanata & Gloucester themindspa.ca https://www.linkedin.com/company/themindspa/ https://www.instagram.com/themindspa.ca/ https://www.facebook.com/themindspa.ca/ Listen on Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Amazon Music | YouTube

