
Episode #15
10 Things I Couldn't See Until My Marriage Ended
What if the things that could have changed your relationship are the things you can't see while you're inside of it? Looking back at my marriage, there are things I understand now that I desperately wish I had understood then. Not because I believe doing them would have guaranteed we'd still be married. I don't know that. But I do know they would have radically changed the dynamic between us and probably changed me in the process. For years, I thought I was working on myself and working on my marriage. We did the retreats. Read the books. Tried to communicate better. I was obsessed with figuring out what was wrong and how to fix it. It wasn't until I left that I realized something: I wasn't actually working on myself. I was working on the problem. In this episode, I'm getting very personal about 10 things I can see now that I couldn't see then, including the wounds I didn't know were driving some of my behavior, the ways I misunderstood our different wiring, what I was withholding without realizing it, and the truth I wish I'd had the courage to say much sooner. Some of these were uncomfortable for me to admit. And whether you're married, in a long-term relationship, newly dating, or trying to understand why relationships keep following a familiar pattern, I hope my hindsight gives you an opportunity I didn't have: to see something while you're still in a position to do something with it. CONNECT WITH ME Start with the free EFA™ Quiz: Discover your natural energetic wiring, how you operate under stress, and patterns that may be influencing your relationships and career. You'll also receive my free guide, Stop Repeating the Pattern in Relationships or Career. EFA Quiz: https://www.ericaanntorres.com/EFAQUIZ Want to go deeper? Get the $27 Pattern Decoder: Love & Career Alignment Kit : https://www.ericaanntorres.com/the-pattern-decoder Want help looking at YOUR specific situation? Book a Clarity Session with me. We'll look beneath the surface at your wiring, wounds, patterns, and the dynamics you may not be able to see from inside the situation so you can get clear on what your next aligned step actually is. Take the quiz or book a session through the links in the show notes. Because sometimes you don't need another strategy for fixing the relationship. You need to see what you can't see while you're inside of it. Instagram: @erica_ann_torres Website: https://www.ericaanntorres.com #PersonalGrowth #SelfAwareness #RelationshipPatterns #CareerChange #InnerWork #MindsetShift #PersonalDevelopment #EnergeticFrequencyArchetypes #LoveAndCareer #EricaAnnTorres


