The Love Agenda

A story-driven podcast that explores dating dilemmas, relationships, and the search for true soulmates through conversations with quality singles—revealing a vibrant mosaic of modern love that challenges assumptions, dismantles stereotypes, and brings clarity to the emotional chaos of dating. This podcast exists to help you date smarter—with emotional fluency, clarity, and confidence. Hosted by Tongalag Liu (aka Tea) - a relationship analyst, researcher, and founder of Heartsync™ Relationship Intelligence. With over 20 years of studying human behavior, relationships, and compatibility, she helps people make clearer, more intentional decisions in love. Collaboration: hello@theloveagenda.co

The Love Agenda is a society podcast hosted by Tongalag, with 18 episodes on record and a Required Pod Score of 80. PitchCentric scores this show on Booking Probability, Listen Score, and live audience signals refreshed every 24 hours.

Tongalag hosts The Love Agenda, a society show with 18 episodes published.

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  Episode #19

  Actionable Tips | How to Approach Women Without Being Weird (w/Eric)

  Aug 17, 202641 min

  Rejection, real-life dating, and how normal guys can start conversations that actually lead somewhere. Rejection is the thing most guys fear, my friend Eric - who coached men (yes, mostly engineers and attorneys) on style, approaching women, and starting conversations that get you a date. We are gonna share the effective ways of approaching girls in public without any 'backlash', and how to get a girlfriend in the most regular places in daily life! We get specific about real-world approach settings. And, good news - you don’t need magic lines! We talk through a practical mindset shift for dating in real life, and what it takes the edge off so the next approach feels 10x easier. We also unpack the reality that dating is a numbers game, and how to make you come across more relaxed and emotionally fluent. If you are a man and want approachable, actionable dating advice on HOW TO GET A GIRL'S NUMBER BY TALKING TO THEM IN PUBLIC, or a girl who is interested in a clearer view of what guys experience when they approach, this one is for you. Take Relationship Assessments Share your thoughts, or send in questions Support the show Meet the host - Tea The mission and ecosystem of The Love Agenda ☀️ Apply to be a guest ‍♀️ Send in your relationship questions ☕️ Take me out for a virtual coffee ✨ Social Media

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  Episode #18

  How to Handle Conflict & Find Love Without Settling (Even In Your Late 40s) w/Nancy D.

  Aug 4, 202640 min

  Conflict doesn’t ruin most relationships, avoidance does. We sit down with Dr. Nancy Dome, best-selling author and communication expert, to get radically practical about how to handle hard conversations without shutting down, blowing up, or walking away the moment it gets uncomfortable. If you’ve ever replayed an argument for days, swallowed your feelings, or regretted what you said in the heat of the moment, this one gives you a better way. We break down Nancy’s compassionate dialogue framework and the RIR protocol: recognize, interrupt, repair. Recognize is about naming what you feel and noticing the “cost of silence” on your body, your mood, and your choices. Interrupt is where you trade assumptions for clarity, using questions that reveal intent, impact, and meaning. Repair is the part most people skip: rebuilding trust, setting a clean boundary, creating a new agreement, or admitting that letting go is the healthiest repair available. Nancy also shares her personal journey of being single most of her life and finding her husband at 48, plus what “not settling” looks like when you still want deep love and real partnership. We talk authenticity during the honeymoon phase, deal breakers, self-love, aging, and the exact sentence you can use this week to start a hard conversation with more compassion and less defensiveness. Subscribe for more honest tools for modern love, share this with a friend who avoids conflict, and leave a review to help us bring more great content to you! Check out Nancy Dome Share your thoughts, or send in questions Support the show Meet the host - Tea The mission and ecosystem of The Love Agenda ☀️ Apply to be a guest ‍♀️ Send in your relationship questions ☕️ Take me out for a virtual coffee ✨ Social Media

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  Episode #17

  The Unexpected Truth About Why Western Men Are Falling for Asian Women (w/Xiaoli)

  Jul 23, 202642 min

  Tea sits down with veteran matchmaker Xiao Li (Shelly), who has spent more than a decade helping Asian and Western singles meet, date, and build marriages across the Bay Area, LA, and New York. Shelly breaks down the most common misconceptions Western men have about Asian women and the assumptions Asian women bring about Western men, especially around first-date physical boundaries, planning, and what “generous” is supposed to look like. We talk about what modern Asian women want now, and get real about the hard stuff people avoid like commitment timing, ghosting, saving face with family, and money habits that can turn into long-term conflict if you never name them. If you’re dating outside your culture for the first time or you’re already in an intercultural relationship and want it to last, press play and take notes. Meet Xiaoli Share your thoughts, or send in questions Support the show Meet the host - Tea The mission and ecosystem of The Love Agenda ☀️ Apply to be a guest ‍♀️ Send in your relationship questions ☕️ Take me out for a virtual coffee ✨ Social Media

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  Episode #16

  A Former Dominatrix Reveals How To Open-up A Conversation About Kinks And Fantasies With Your Partner. (w/Amanda D.)

  Jul 4, 202636 min

  The fastest way to kill intimacy isn’t “bad sex” it’s the silence around it. Tea sits down with Amanda, a certified sexologist, intimacy coach, and former professional dominatrix, to talk about the part of dating and relationships most people overthink and under-discuss: sexual communication. If you’ve ever wanted to ask for something new but worried it would sound awkward, risky, or “too much,” this conversation gives you a clear path forward. We get real about why sex is one of the hardest topics to talk about even in strong relationships, and how silence quietly grows into distance. With Amanda’s guidance, we share a practical way to bring up desires, handle boundaries, and protect trust while dating, married, or anywhere in between. 📋 Amanda's Worksheet ☎️ Book A Call With Amanda Share your thoughts, or send in questions📝 Support the show 💖 Meet the host - Tongalag ☀️ Apply to be a guest ☕️ Take me out for a virtual coffee ✨ Social Media

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  Episode #15

  The Truth and Facts About Dating Single Parents: Priorities, Challenges x 10 Essential Tips (With Pat H.)

  Jun 18, 202638 min

  Dating a single parent can feel like stepping into a world with invisible rules, until you realize the rules are just real life: kids, custody, work, and a limited amount of time. I’m joined by Pat Hankin, co-author of Field Guide for Single Parents , whose insights come from years of data and patterns gathered from a massive single parent community. We get honest about what makes dating a single mom or single dad different, and what “support” should actually look like when you’re not trying to become the savior of someone’s family system. We talk through the practical problems that derail promising connections, and how to make dating work. We also dig into online dating safety and why some single mothers avoid dating . If you’re considering a relationship with a single parent, you’ll leave with clearer boundaries, better questions to ask, and a calmer way to judge what’s actually a red flag versus normal parenting logistics . 📕 The Field Guide for Single Parents by Pat Hankin 📘 The Book of Beautiful Questions by Warren Berger Share your thoughts, or send in questions📝 Support the show 💖 Meet the host - Tongalag ☀️ Apply to be a guest ☕️ Take me out for a virtual coffee ✨ Social Media

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