The Hard Or Soft Show
BDSM, Kink & Open Relationships- The Rules Nobody Teaches You
Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAAALLLLL!!!!!!! This week on Hard or Soft , we’re joined by Dre for a deep dive into BDSM, kink culture, play parties, relationships and the history behind a community that a lot of people participate in — but may not fully understand. And somehow we start with Dre explaining why he’s out here using BOXING GLOVES to massage booty. From there, Dre takes us into the world of rope and body suspension , explaining the different levels of suspension, why properly distributing someone’s weight matters, and what draws people to the experience in the first place. Then we get into the HISTORY. Dre breaks down the roots of leather culture, BDSM and kink , including the influence of LGBTQ+ communities on the culture that exists today. We discuss why some longtime members of those communities are critical of a newer generation entering kink spaces, hosting events and adopting practices without learning the history, traditions and responsibilities that came before them. Then we bring everything back to relationships. Tahoe and Dre explain why they’ve chosen not to sexually engage with attendees while they’re hosting play parties. We talk about the best way to tell your partner you’re interested in someone else at a party, what happens when your kinks DON’T match your partner’s, and how to respectfully approach a couple when you’re interested in connecting with one of them. And then comes the conversation a lot of men aren’t prepared to have: How do men navigate their partners having other male partners? We get into jealousy, communication, boundaries, multiple relationship dynamics outside of a primary partnership, and whether wanting freedom for yourself means being prepared to give your partner that same freedom. This isn’t just a conversation about what people do in kink spaces — it’s about understanding the culture, communication, consent and history behind them. Welcome back to Hard or Soft . Socials: Dre @BeatsByDre on Fetlife Go to @HausofBliss on Instagram for event details Courtney @Courtney_Shav on Instagram Tahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram Yessssterday @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor. Ads: Soaking Wet Go to SoakingWet.com and use code HARDORSOFT for 10% off GetTheButters Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off) Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow Twitter @HardOrSoftShow
