
Episode #43
*BONUS EPISODE* From “I Don’t Know” to “Here’s What I Think”: Building Confident Communicators with Jeaneen Tang
Are we helping our children communicate… or accidentally doing too much for them? In this powerful conversation, speech-language pathologist, author, and mother Jeaneen Tang joins Knikki Hernandez to explore how parents and educators can help children become more confident, independent communicators. Drawing from her book Play Dumb & Sabotage , Jeaneen explains why well-meaning adults sometimes anticipate children’s needs too quickly, answer questions for them, finish their sentences, or eliminate problems before children have the opportunity to communicate for themselves. Throughout this webinar, we explore practical ways to create more opportunities for children to think, speak, problem-solve, and self-advocate at every stage of development. You’ll learn about: Why “helping” too quickly can sometimes interfere with communication development How to use Jeaneen’s “Play Dumb & Sabotage” approach The importance of the five-second communication pause Why adults should stop answering questions for children too quickly How to replace yes-or-no questions with better questions How communication expectations should evolve from preschool through high school Why children need safe opportunities to struggle How parents and teachers can build communication independence The connection between life experience, language development, and higher-level thinking How to help children learn to ask for clarification and advocate for themselves Why playful, even absurd, conversations can strengthen language and relationships One of the biggest takeaways from this conversation: Sometimes adults need to step back so children can step forward. Whether you are a parent, teacher, tutor, speech-language pathologist, or someone who works with young people, this conversation offers practical strategies you can begin using immediately. Learn more about Jeaneen Tang and her book Play Dumb & Sabotage , available on Amazon. ️ Hosted by Knikki Hernandez , educator, tutor, and host of The Gentle Year . #Parenting #ChildDevelopment #CommunicationSkills #SpeechTherapy #LanguageDevelopment #ParentingTips #Teachers #SpeechLanguagePathology #ConfidentKids #Education Shared Humanity Substack Shared Humanity Book The Gentle Year FB Group Turning The Tide Tutoring Acting With Pippi I'm a fan and would love to support the work you're doing. Private Success Club Metafriction by Luke Roberts Send us Fan Mail Support the show

