The Emil Show - All Things Relational

Dealing with passive aggressive comments are some of the hardest statements to respond to. Using the "translation" process it helps us protect our boundaries from these hurtful comments without creating a fight. Get...

What is emotional connection? Why does it often decrease over time in relationships and how can we get it back ? Emotional connection or intimacy is sometimes hard to describe, but it's easy to know when it's gone. In...

Is happiness really a choice? What role should your partner play in your happiness? In this episode, Emil describes the roles and responsibilities we have as individuals and as partners regarding happiness. He explains...

What is the secret to a great marriage? This is the most frequent question that I receive. The answer is simple: seeking, receiving, and responding to feedback. In this episode, I share how feedback is the key to true...

What are the rules about bringing things up from the past? In relationships, partners often bring up the past during arguments in the present. Why does this happen, when is it legitimate, and how do we handle it? In...

It's vital to be critical about any marriage advice you find online. Here's how to ensure you're getting good, reliable information: 1. Source Credibility: Reputable Websites: Focus on sites run by mental health...

Are you tired of chasing the life you want? Do you wish there was a way to make your dreams a reality? In this episode, Emil interviews Jeff D Buehner, author of The Sultan's Seven Secrets. Jeff shares how he came...

In this insightful episode, Emil welcomes his son, Hunter Harker, to discuss the crucial role relationships play in the overall well-being of seniors. Hunter draws from his inspiring talk to explore how strong social...

In this episode, Emil is interviewed by Shiree Best on her podcast, Just Love Them . What do you do when your kids are making poor choices? Do you tighten the reigns and set additional boundaries? Emil shares his method...

We may not be able to control the actions or feelings of others, but we can't deny our influence on them. In this episode, Emil explains how to maximize that influence. He shares the key to creating safety through...

Do you avoid discussing controversial topics with friends and family? Do conversations often get heated and uncomfortable? In this episode, Emil shares an effective communication tool that helps to turn moments of...

What’s the difference between codependency and interdependence in relationships? Codependency Definition: An unhealthy reliance on another person for emotional or physical needs to the point of sacrificing one's own...

Social media and popular psychology have skewed the way we think about self-love. It is more complex than simply relaxing or taking time for yourself. Self-love is the purest form of positive regard you have for...

Dating can be a challenging and stressful process. People often don’t know what to look for in a potential partner. In this episode, Emil resumes the discussion on how to find a successful relationship. He shares the...

Are you looking for someone to spend the rest of your life with? Are you wondering where to begin or how to find a good match? In this episode, Emil answers these questions and shares ChatGPT’s 15 things you need for a...