
The Breakup Debrief Podcast
#64 From Rock Bottom to Barbie Dream House; Thilinie's Breakup Recovery Story
This week Kelly is joined by a very special guest- Thilinie, a past client of the Breakup Empowerment Programme, who has very generously agreed to come on & share her story. Six months ago, Thilinie was navigating one of the hardest periods of her life. She had lost her dad in January. Her "situationship" of almost two years ended over the phone on St. Patrick's Day with no explanation. She moved into a brand new house alone, an hour away from everyone she knew, in an area she had never lived in before, knowing nobody except her ex. And she was meant to be exchanging on that house the very next day. Today? She calls it her Barbie dream house ❤️ You'll hear: ✨ Thilinie's full story; loss, a situationship ending, moving alone & starting completely from scratch ✨ What she was hoping coaching would give her & what it actually gave her that she didn't expect ✨ The limiting belief she had carried since childhood that she didn't even know was a limiting belief until they worked on it together ✨ How she went from T, the version of herself that threw everything into relationships & lost who she was- to Thilinie ❤️ ✨ The anxious preoccupied attachment style she thought she already understood & what actually helped her change it ✨ Why knowing your attachment style isn't enough & what the missing piece actually is ✨ What her non-negotiables list looked like when she started & how Kelly very kindly told her that most of them were actually just bare minimum ✨ How dating feels completely different now & the very telling detail that she no longer scrolls back through old messages looking for validation ✨ Four coats of paint, a wardrobe room & a painter she is dating who was absolutely not allowed to touch a single wall ✨ Why time does not heal & what actually does ✨ Her advice for anyone who is thinking about getting support but is not sure if it is for them This one is for the girl who is in the thick of it & cannot see the other side yet. Thilinie can see it & she is sending you love from her Barbie dream house Links and Resources Share your story for the Where Is She Now segment: info@kellyskoaching.com Follow Kelly on Instagram and TikTok: @kellyskoaching Explore all links and resources: Linktree

