
Shift Your Story, Change Your Life
75 | When Money Means Losing What You Love: A Hypnocoaching Session with Heidi
Sometimes a money problem isn’t really about the money. You can read the books, do the money mindset work, listen to the meditations, and consciously believe that money is available to you, and still find yourself repeating the same pattern. That’s where Heidi was when she came into this episode. Money would come in, sometimes in really significant ways, and then it would disappear. She’d spend it. A bill would show up. She’d avoid paying something even when the money was sitting in her bank account. And no matter how much she earned, she kept finding herself back in the same place. What made it even more frustrating was that she’d been able to change so many other patterns in her life, but this one wouldn’t move. So instead of staying at the surface and talking about budgeting, discipline or what she “should” be doing differently, we went to the root cause of the pattern. And we found a five-year-old little girl who had been trying to keep her away from something that felt dirty, gross, materialistic and unsafe. And even at 56, that part was still trying to help. What You’ll Hear Why Heidi could receive money but struggled to keep it How she recognized that her relationship with money was the one pattern she hadn’t been able to shift Why her subconscious believed it was protecting her by getting rid of money The realization that spending money first gave her a sense of control over losing it Why paying a bill could emotionally feel like something was being taken from her The moment Heidi realized her five-year-old self no longer had to be in charge What shifted when she could finally become the adult that younger version of herself didn’t have Resources and Links Want help identifying the subconscious pattern beneath the area where you feel stuck? Take the free five-minute Spot the Block assessment at https://spottheblock.app . Ready to explore your patterns with deeper, personalized support? Click here to book your Connection Call. Apply to be coached on the podcast at shiftyourstorypodcast.com . Hang out with me on Instagram and Facebook . Your Next Steps If there’s an area of your financial life where you keep thinking, “Why do I keep doing this?” I want you to get curious before you judge yourself. What did money mean in your home when you were little? Did it mean arguments? Stress? Someone being gone all the time because they had to work? Did having more somehow come with losing something else? Sometimes the pattern we’re trying so hard to fix makes a lot more sense when we understand who created it and what they were trying to protect us from. You’re not five anymore, and the part of you that learned how to survive that version of life doesn’t have to be the part making every decision today. ️ The Shift Your Story Podcast © 2026 Ally Rose | All Rights Reserved Contact: ally@therootedwellnesscollective.com ✨ Want to be coached on the podcast? Apply here Let’s connect: Instagram | Facebook | Website Disclaimer: The information shared on this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or cure any condition, nor does it constitute a therapeutic relationship. All views expressed are my own. You should always consult with your own medical, mental health, legal, and financial professionals before making any decisions.

