Episode #360
360 | Threesome at a Swingers Club: Steve’s Sex Stories
Exhibitionism, threesomes, and swinger club advice—Steve shares what he’s learned about desire, connection, letting go of shame at 72, and bringing a nearly sexless marriage back to life. PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod! QUINCE: make your bed your favorite place to be this season BEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sex ÜBERLUBE: the BEST personal lubricant LORALS: FDA-cleared latex lingerie | Use the code LOVER for 10% off FIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% off SHAMELESS CARE: Sex positive healthcare | Use the code LOVER for $15 off MOTORBUNNY: Sex machines & riding toys ENJOX TOYS: Enjoy smart sex for everyone SDC: A place for swingers to connect STATS | 72 male, married 42 years, exhibitionist, served in the military, university teacher, running coach, originally from New Jersey, Virginia-based, into: swing cubs, threesomes, vixen/stag dynamics, and long distance running. ⏰ TIME CODE 00:00 Growing up with sexual shame, subpar sex education, and gender double standards 08:39 Car sex, public flashing, and an unexpected formative threesome 14:46 Letting go of labels and embracing a more fluid view of sexuality 17:21 Exhibitionism, restaurant sex, pool sex, and the thrill of being watched 22:22 Beaches, parties, and fantasies about playing with his wife and another man 25:01 How his marriage became nearly sexless and how he turned it around 27:45 Going solo to a swing club and having an incredible bisexual threesome 31:01 Squirting, creampies, and an over-the-moon MFM experience at a New Orleans swingers club 33:21 Swing club advice for single men: grooming, conversation, respect, and consent 37:37 Rebuilding attraction by working on physical, social, emotional, and spiritual wellness 45:31 Bubble baths, oral sex, bedroom talk, and rediscovering pleasure together 47:57 Considering a threesome with his wife and how sexual conversations are bringing them closer 52:05 Staying sexual as grandparents and refusing to let age dictate intimacy 55:27 What 42 years of partnership taught him about independence, resilience, and taking responsibility 1:00:27 Slow sex, sensual touch, kissing, and prioritizing connection over performance 1:03:10 Rejecting sexual double standards and following feelings and fantasies ABOUT LUNA | howtoluna.com / linktr.ee/howtoluna ✨ PATREON | Luna’s exclusive updates, stories & the ad-free feed: patreon.com/howtoluna PLAY | Tickle Luna’s moneykink: onlyfans.com/lunarobbie ⬛ sextpanther.com/lunarsecrets ️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com SHARE SEX STORIES Explore (y)our curiosity. Offer irresistible invitations. Spread ripples of love. TOPICS | 72-year-old sexuality, adult lifestyle venues, age-positive sexuality, aging and eroticism, anal-free bisexual play, attraction after decades together, avocado oil lubricant, bi-curious men, bisexual oral play, body confidence in older adults, Catholic sexual upbringing, changing sexual attitudes, consensual group play, couples counseling and intimacy, cuckold-adjacent fantasies, desire in long-term relationships, erotic communication, erotic confidence, erotic exploration later in life, erotic fantasies in marriage, eroticism after 70, ethical group sex, female ejaculation, fluid sexuality, fucking outdoors, fucking on cars, gay male oral sex, heterosexual marriage and bisexual desire, intimacy after decades together, lifestyle club etiquette, long-term relationship sexuality, male bisexual curiosity, male sexual insecurity, marriage counseling for intimacy, MFM sex, non-monogamous curiosity, older adult sex, oral sex between men, partnered sexual communication, public sex fantasies, rebuilding erotic attraction, relationship repair, same-sex curiosity in men, sex after 60, sex after 70, sex and aging, sex-positive grandparents, sexual confidence, sexual frequency mismatch, sexual fluidity, sexual self-acceptance, sexual stereotypes, sexuality spectrum, slow lovemaking, solo male swinger etiquette, stag and vixen curiosity, swinger etiquette, swingers lifestyle, swinging as a single man, tantric-inspired sex, trans women attraction, voyeuristic arousal, wife sharing fantasy. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
