
Episode #202
Why can't I make myself do the things that are good for me? The knowing - doing pitfall.
Ever wondered why you can have all the best intentions, know exactly what would help you - and you're still not do it? This week, we’re diving into The Knowing-Doing Gap: that infuriating space between knowing what’s good for you and actually getting off the sofa to do it. We unpack why information alone never translates into motivation, how culture weaponises the word “lazy” (hi, burnout hustle), and why your brain’s ancient systems would rather keep you “safe” and stuck. Drawing on the Knowing-Doing Gap framework, you'll get practical insight into shifting from self-blame to understanding the hidden stories and sneaky perfectionism that keep you frozen. Key Takeaways: Knowing and Doing Live in Different Parts of the Brain The cultural baggage we carry about laziness and how we often beat ourselves up for not taking action. The Brain’s sneaky methods for self-protection. Your Stories (and Self-talk) Drive Action - or Inaction Consistency Isn’t About Willpower - It’s About Lowering the Stakes Full transcript: https://www.heardinlondon.com/post/why-can-t-i-make-myself-do-the-things-that-are-good-for-me-the-knowing-doing-pitfall The 3 Thoughts Keeping You Stuck free video series: https://heardinlondon.myflodesk.com/3lessons Apply for a Free 5% Better Focus Coaching Call https://forms.gle/Ajmcv5yw1Gh4dQNF8 All My Free Resources: www.selfcareschool.co.uk/pages/selfcareschool-free-resources Emotional Resilience Toolkit: https://www.selfcareschool.co.uk/courses/emotional-resilience-toolkit How to Make Time for Yourself: https://www.selfcareschool.co.uk/courses/how-to-make-time-for-yourself Podcast Q&A - What would you like me to talk about? https://forms.gle/w6MxqV5Di4YwGCRL6 If you'd like to know more, and like to see more incredible humans, please do hop on to social media: www.Instagram.com/HeardinLondon And if you would like to learn more about how you can embed this stuff into your life and would like to join something incredible coaching calls and the group work please do have a look at www.selfcareschool.co.uk If you have any questions about anything I mentioned this week, please do drop me an e-mail.

