
Ruck Up Buttercup
S6E19 Ruck Up Buttercup Girl Chat: Are Military Kids Really Resilient?
Are Military Kids Really Resilient? Back-to-School, PCS Transitions, and Supporting Military Children In a girl chat episode of the Ruck Up Buttercup podcast, the host welcomes Lara back and introduces D’Vaunee, discussing chaotic back-to-school experiences and the common belief that military kids are “resilient.” They question whether kids adapt because they are resilient or because they have no choice amid PCS moves, deployments, new schools, and constant restarting. The conversation covers practical challenges like water main breaks canceling school, enrollment and paperwork issues, 504 accommodations for Astrid’s EDS, and worries about middle school, bullying, and ADHD. They emphasize validating kids’ emotions, building routines, staying involved and advocating at school, preparing documents before PCSing, and using resources like school liaisons, Telemynd, and community groups such as Deployed Love to help families and kids feel connected and supported. 00:00 Welcome Back Girl Chat 01:47 Are Military Kids Resilient 02:25 School Year Chaos Stories 04:21 Squishies And School Rules 07:17 Defining Resilience 11:00 Astrid 504 And EDS 14:26 Missing Out On Opportunities 16:33 Mid Year Moves And Orders 18:40 Real Life Interruptions 24:02 Tools For Tough Transitions 26:34 Junior High Jitters 27:28 School Move Stressors 27:55 Easing School Transitions 29:58 Paperwork Before PCS 31:30 Advocate With Teachers 33:15 Accountability And Kindness 35:46 Beyond Resilient Skills 38:22 Books And Belonging 41:43 Friendships And Tech 48:14 Home Identity And Roots 50:34 Advice To Future Kids 57:15 Programs And Community 01:00:59 Final Wrap And Goodbye





