Red Hot Marriage

A toast at an anniversary dinner sent Diana into a panic attack in the restaurant bathroom. That's how fast a trigger hits when you're healing from betrayal — and in this episode, Erik and Diana unpack it all. They...

Is compatibility just chemistry — or can you actually build it? This episode came straight out of one of our premarital sessions. A couple got their SYMBIS (Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts) results back, saw a few...

How long are you supposed to fight for your marriage — especially when you feel like you're the only one doing it? That's the question we're unpacking in this episode, and we're not going to sugarcoat it. We've sat with...

Sex in marriage — let's actually talk about it. We sat down for one of their most honest conversations yet: why couples stop having sex, what gets in the way of real intimacy, and how to build a marriage where the...

I was bragging about Erik to a friend — his drive, his gifts, his ability to learn anything. I came home excited to share a job opportunity with him. and He snapped. And that one moment could have turned into days of...

<p>Marriage is beautiful — but getting there? That's where it gets real. In this episode, Erik & Diana pull back the curtain on the most honest (and sometimes shocking) premarital conversations they've had over the...

<p>Most couples think their marriage is breaking down because they "can't communicate." Our guest this week, licensed therapist Katherine, says that's almost never the real issue. The real issue is safety — and most of...

<p>We sit down to talk about the show that's stolen our hearts — Netflix's Love on the Spectrum — and the relationship lessons every couple needs to hear.</p><p>In this episode they unpack:</p>Why intentional dating...

<p>Your spouse isn't being mean. They're shut down. And the longer it goes on, the harder it is to come back.</p><p>In this episode of Red Hot Marriage, we're getting honest about one of the quietest things that...

<p>"Happy wife, happy life" — it's one of the most common phrases in marriage. But what if it's actually one of the most damaging?</p><p><br></p><p>Erik and Diana sit down to break down where this phrase came from, why...

<p>Erik and Diana sit down to unpack one of the most important — and most avoided — topics in marriage: conflict. Not just what causes it, but what's really going on beneath it, and how to come out the other side more...

<p>What does real recovery look like — and can a marriage actually come back stronger after pornography addiction and betrayal?</p><p>In Part 2 of our conversation with Chris McMullen, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist...

<p>Most men are told the same thing about pornography: just stop. Just quit. Man up. But what if the real issue has nothing to do with willpower — and everything to do with wounds you've been carrying since...

<p>In this episode of Red Hot Marriage, Erik and Diana talk about one of the biggest disconnects in relationships:</p><p>When words say “I love you” but actions say something else.</p><p>Over time, marriages can drift...

<p>In this episode, we explore honest communication within marriage, the importance of safe sharing, and practical steps for recovery from betrayal or addiction. Whether you're facing infidelity, pornography addiction...