Real World Peaceful Parenting

Are you tired of yelling at your kids? Do you sometimes feel like they don’t listen or respect you? Do you feel like the worst parent EVER? You’re not alone, there is hope!Join Lisa Smith -- Mom, Master Certified Parent Coach, Author and Speaker -- as she helps turn frustrated parents -- who regularly default to yelling, threatening and punishing -- into peaceful leaders within their households. As a former dominant parent, she has found the path to Peaceful Parenting and is dedicated to helping other parents find their way too! But be warned, this is not a “foo-foo” podcast that’s going to tell you to let your kids do whatever they want without any rules or limitations. Each week Lisa will share the exact methods and step-by-step strategies she used to transform from an angry, controlling mom who was constantly upset with her son and husband, into a calm, confident, and connected leader in her home.To connect with Lisa visit https://thepeacefulparent.com/

Real World Peaceful Parenting is a kids podcast hosted by Lisa Smith, with 300 episodes on record and a Required Pod Score of 85.

Lisa Smith hosts Real World Peaceful Parenting, a kids show with 300 episodes published.

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  Episode #299

  299: When Your Kid Has Big Feelings—But You Still Have to Go

  Sep 30, 202629 min

  What do you do when your kid is nervous, disappointed, angry, or melting down…and you genuinely have to leave right now? In this episode, I’m clearing up one of the biggest misconceptions about peaceful parenting: honoring your kid’s feelings does not mean life has to stop until those feelings disappear. Through a real coaching story involving a nervous 6-year-old, a math tutoring appointment, three kids in the car, and one surprisingly powerful paper airplane, I’ll show you how to separate feelings from actions, determine whether the urgency is real, and regulate yourself just enough to see your next best move. Because emotional regulation isn’t teaching your kid, “I can do hard things once I feel better.” It’s teaching them, “I can feel uncomfortable and still do hard things.” That’s Real World Peaceful Parenting: strong spine, soft heart. What You'll Learn: Why honoring your kid’s feelings doesn’t mean letting those feelings make every decision—and how to hold empathy and boundaries at the same time. How to separate the feeling from the action, so your kid can be nervous and walk into school, disappointed and leave the park, or angry and turn off the screen. The “earache or code blue?” question that helps you determine whether you truly need to move quickly or your own nervous system is creating unnecessary urgency. Why fast isn’t always efficient—and how 30 seconds spent regulating yourself can sometimes prevent 20 minutes of arguing, threatening, or melting down. How to regulate yourself “enough” in real-world moments, without needing a 20-minute meditation when you’ve got a baby in the car and soccer starts in 12 minutes. How peaceful leadership builds real emotional regulation, teaching your kid that uncomfortable feelings don’t need to disappear before they can cope, choose, move forward, and do hard things. Tired of feeling like your kids are running the house (and you're just the exhausted referee)? You've yelled. You've bribed. You've tried "being calm." You've even Googled "Am I a bad parent?" at 2 a.m. Listen—you're not broken. And neither is your child. You just need a better way. The Hive is live coaching, practical tools, and a judgment-fre

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  Episode #298

  298: You Know What to Do—So Why Can't You Do It?

  Sep 23, 202629 min

  You’ve read the books. You’ve listened to the podcasts. You know you’re supposed to regulate, connect before you correct, and respond instead of react. Then it’s 7:42 on Tuesday morning, your kid STILL doesn’t have their shoes on, and every peaceful parenting tool you’ve ever learned has apparently packed a suitcase and left town. In this episode of Real World Peaceful Parenting, I’m breaking down what parent coaching actually does—and why knowing the tools isn’t always enough to change the patterns you keep getting stuck in. Through real coaching examples, I’ll show you why lasting change often starts before the strategy, with understanding what’s actually happening with your kid, between you, and inside you. What You'll Learn: Why knowing what to do and being able to access that knowledge when you’re triggered are two very different skills. How you can spend enormous energy solving the wrong parenting problem—and why getting curious before reaching for another tool can change everything. The three places Lisa investigates in coaching: what’s happening with your kid, what’s happening between you, and what’s happening inside you. How seemingly factual beliefs like “My kids ignore me” or “My kid doesn’t respect limits” can shape your nervous system, reactions, and the entire interaction. Why real parenting growth isn’t linear—and how noticing triggers sooner, recovering faster, repairing more quickly, and responding differently are evidence that your work is compounding. How coaching provides more than encouragement by helping you recognize patterns, challenge assumptions, practice new skills, and sometimes borrow belief and perspective until you can access them for yourself. Tired of feeling like your kids are running the house (and you're just the exhausted referee)? You've yelled. You've bribed. You've tried "being calm." You've even Googled "Am I a bad parent?" at 2 a.m. Listen—you're not broken. And neither is your child. You just need a better way. The Hive is live coaching, practical tools, and a judgment-fre

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  Episode #297

  297: Why Your Kid Falls Apart After School

  Sep 16, 202617 min

  Your kid holds it together all day at school…and then completely loses it the second they get in the car. In this episode of Real World Peaceful Parenting, I’m breaking down what’s really happening during those after-school meltdowns. You’ll learn about the “invisible emotional backpack” your kid carries all day, why their thinking brain may be running on fumes by pickup, and why falling apart with you can actually be a sign that you are their safe place. I’ll also give you four practical steps to make the after-school transition calmer, including what to do before your kid gets in the car, why fewer questions can actually lead to more connection, and how to hold limits without adding fuel to the storm. What You'll Learn: Why your kid may seem totally fine at school and then melt down the minute they’re with you. What goes into your kid’s invisible emotional backpack throughout the day—and why carrying it takes so much energy. Why after-school meltdowns can be a sign that you are the safe place where your kid finally feels able to let go. How to stop taking the behavior personally so you don’t become dysregulated right alongside your kid. Why being the detective, not the interrogator can help you figure out whether your kid needs food, quiet, movement, space, or connection. How to use a strong spine and soft heart: understand the reason behind the behavior, hold the limit in the moment, and save the teaching for later when everyone’s brain is back online.

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  Episode #296

  296: Why “Just Put Your Phone Down” Doesn’t Work—and What Will

  Sep 9, 202627 min

  Your kid can’t put their phone down…and if we’re being honest, sometimes neither can we. In this episode of Real World Peaceful Parenting, Lisa takes a fresh look at kids, smartphones, and screen-time limits. Instead of blaming kids for lacking willpower—or declaring technology the enemy—Lisa explains why developing brains need parents to create thoughtful “governors” around technology. You’ll learn how phones can crowd out boredom, sleep, face-to-face connection, and opportunities to practice emotional regulation, plus three areas of family life Lisa believes are worth protecting. Most importantly, you’ll learn how to set limits with a strong spine and soft heart—even when your kid absolutely, positively, passionately does NOT agree. What You'll Learn: Why expecting kids to regulate their own phone use through willpower alone may be asking their developing brains to do an incredibly difficult job. How to think about technology limits as a “governor” that protects your kid rather than a punishment for doing something wrong. Why boredom, waiting, awkwardness, and discomfort are valuable opportunities for kids to develop emotional regulation and real-world social skills. The difference between using a phone as one regulation tool and allowing it to become the entire emotional-regulation toolbox. Three places to consider protecting from phones—sleep, the family table, and intentional empty space—and why each matters. How to hold a healthy phone boundary with a strong spine and soft heart, while also examining the technology habits you’re modeling for your kid. How to Get Your Strong-Willed Kid (Toddler to Teen) to Listen Without Yelling, Punishing, or Losing Your Mind. You’re not failing — you’re stuck in a cycle that doesn’t work. Join this free class to learn how to break the yelling loop and lead with calm confidence. SAVE YOUR FREE SPOT!

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  Episode #295

  295: Stop Labeling, Start Investigating: How to Really See Your Kid

  Sep 2, 202622 min

  “He’s lazy.” “She’s dramatic.” “He’s irresponsible.” “She’s just difficult.” Sometimes there is a real pattern underneath those thoughts—but there’s a huge difference between noticing something your kid struggles with and deciding that struggle is who they are. In this episode of Real World Peaceful Parenting, I’m digging into the labels we consciously and unconsciously put on our kids, how confirmation bias keeps us collecting evidence that proves those labels “right,” and how our beliefs change the way we show up as parents. I’ll share how I labeled Malcolm as lazy for years, what I was completely missing because of that belief, and how curiosity helped me reopen the case. You’ll walk away with three practical questions to help you stop parenting the label and start seeing the developing kid standing right in front of you. What You'll Learn: The critical difference between describing a struggle your kid is having and turning that struggle into an identity. How confirmation bias causes your brain to collect evidence supporting labels like “lazy,” “dramatic,” or “irresponsible”—while conveniently ignoring evidence that doesn’t fit. Why the beliefs you hold about your kid affect who you become when you parent them, from yelling and lecturing to hovering, rescuing, and micromanaging. How Lisa’s belief that Malcolm was “lazy” kept her from seeing important clues about his motivation, interests, task initiation, and the support he actually needed. Why even positive labels like “the smart one,” “the responsible one,” or “the athlete” can unintentionally box a kid into an identity they feel pressured to maintain. Three detective questions that will help you reopen the case, collect all the data, challenge what you think you already know, and leave room for your kid to grow and show you who they’re becoming.

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