
Real Second Chance Podcast
Fighting, Life & Faith: Roll With The Punches | Kane "Kandyman" Bayer | RSCP #2
What happens when life keeps changing the game plan — but God keeps asking you to take the next step? In this episode of Real Second Chance Podcast, I sit down with my good friend Kane “Kandyman” Bayer to talk about fighting, life, faith, family and learning to roll with the punches. Kane shares his journey from growing up in India and moving to Australia, navigating his parents’ divorce and anger as a teenager, encountering God, stepping into boxing and Muay Thai, marriage, ministry, burnout, becoming a father and eventually learning to trust God through major life transitions. Through every season, one lesson kept coming back: Nothing was wasted. The good, the bad and the painful parts of our story can all become part of what God uses to shape us for what comes next. If you’re facing a season where you can’t see the next step clearly, I hope this conversation encourages you to keep moving forward and trust God with what comes next. Your worst chapter doesn’t get to write the ending. There’s still a second chance. Subscribe to Real Second Chance Podcast for more real conversations about pain, faith, healing, purpose and second chances. 00:00 — Welcome & Prayer 01:54 — Who Is Kane Bayer? 02:23 — Moving From India to Australia 07:03 — Faith, Baptism & His Parents’ Divorce 13:35 — The Encounter With God That Changed His Life 19:14 — Anger, Pain & Discovering Fighting 23:46 — Bible College: One Foot in Faith, One Foot in the World 31:58 — Conviction & Realising He Was Called to Something Different 33:19 — Becoming a Personal Trainer 36:18 — Boxing, Competition & Fighting Under the Bright Lights 43:10 — The Fight That Made Him Walk Away 45:00 — Discovering Muay Thai 50:48 — Becoming a Better Coach Than Fighter 51:40 — Meeting His Future Wife Claire 55:01 — “I Think I’m Going to Marry You” 59:39 — Learning Not to Rush Relationships 01:01:18 — Marriage & The Refining Process 01:06:38 — Ministry, Leadership & Youth Pastoring 01:08:46 — Learning to Trust God With the Next Step 01:11:01 — Burnout & The Decision to Leave 01:15:47 — Starting Again in a New Place 01:18:35 — Taking Another Step of Faith 01:21:19 — Becoming a Father 01:22:33 — Learning to Roll With the Punches 01:24:53 — Advice for the Next Generation 01:26:46 — Closing Conversation #ChristianTestimony #Faith #SecondChances

