PinkTaxChat Podcast

🎙️ Heyyy, fabulous listeners! 🎉 Welcome to The Taja and Tori Show, also known as the PinkTaxChat Podcast! 👛💫We're your go-tos for all the juicy deets on finance, relationships, dating, adulthood, and everything in between. Two single, savvy, and fabulous BIPOC, Deaf women in our early 30s, bringing you a front-row seat to our unique experiences, laughter, and a sprinkle of wisdom. 🌟 So, buckle up for a rollercoaster of emotions, stories, and lessons as we navigate this thing called life.

PinkTaxChat Podcast is a society podcast hosted by PinkTaxChat, with 42 episodes on record and a Required Pod Score of 80. PitchCentric scores this show on Booking Probability, Listen Score, and live audience signals refreshed every 24 hours.

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  Why Being Alone in Your 30s Feels So Hard (And How to Fix It)

  Aug 18, 202638 minS2

  Are you struggling with being single in your 30s or feeling awkward doing things alone? In this episode of Deafinitely Not The One, we dive deep into "Solo Dolo Season"—navigating solitude, unlearning codependency, and learning how to protect your peace. We discuss:• The awkwardness of public alone time (and why nobody is actually looking at you)• The societal pressure on single women in their 30s vs. 20s• Why adult friendships are so hard to maintain • Grieving unfulfilled relationship expectations & healing father wounds• How to grant "VIP Access" to your life and stop settling out of fearCHAPTER TIMESTAMPS:[00:00:00] Intro & The Cringe of Going Out Alone[00:03:04] Societal Pressures on Single Women in Their 30s[00:04:14] Female Friendships vs. Male Friendships[00:08:05] Embracing Solitude vs. Internalizing Shame[00:09:18] The "People-ing" Scale Check[00:10:57] Dating in Your 20s: Self-Exploration vs. Filling Voids[00:15:01] Post-Grad Isolation & Navigating Alone Time[00:16:29] Settling Out of Fear vs. Knowing Your Worth[00:19:54] Grieving the Future You Thought You’d Have[00:22:28] Protecting Your Peace: Giving "VIP Access" to Your Life[00:23:44] Solitude as a Spiritual Season: Hearing God's Voice[00:27:06] Unpacking Yourself: "Can You Stand on You?"[00:32:05] Healing Father Wounds & Unlearning Emotional Patterns[00:34:20] Homework Assignment & The Solo Date Challenge WEEKLY HOMEWORK CHALLENGE:1. What is something you’ve done alone that you ended up loving?2. What is one thing you’re currently terrified to do by yourself?Drop your answers in the comments below! SUBSCRIBE & FOLLOW:Podcast Channel: @DeafinitelyNotTheOneInstagram: @DeafinitelyNotTheOneTikTok: @DeafinitelyNotTheOne#Solitude #SingleInYour30s #PersonalGrowth #DeafinitelyNotTheOne #SelfLove #HealingWounds #ProtectYourPeace

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  Breaking up is hard to do (therapy version)

  Aug 12, 202629 minS2

  Are you staying with a therapist who no longer serves your growth just to avoid an awkward conversation? In this episode of Deafinitely Not The One, we are diving deep into the realities of mental health support, boundary setting, and why breaking up with your therapist might be the best decision you make for your personal development.We break down the rise of ghosting culture in millennials, the difference between passive "talk therapy" and actionable coaching, cultural alignment in mental health, and how Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART) is changing the game for anxiety and trauma recovery. Plus, we share our exact framework for ending provider relationships professionally—without over-apologizing. QUESTION OF THE DAY: On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate your relationship with your current therapist or coach? Let us know in the comments below!-------------------------------------------------- EPISODE TIMESTAMPS:00:00 - Welcome Back & Episode Overview00:46 - Ghosting Culture & Why Communication Is Dying01:50 - Can Therapy Fix Boundary Setting & Hard Conversations?02:47 - The Therapy Audit: Rating Our Relationship with Therapy (1–10)05:35 - Sex Coaching vs. Traditional Therapy: Outgrowing Your Provider07:01 - Why Talk Therapy Fails Body Image & Self-Esteem Issues08:20 - The Importance of Culturally Aligned Therapists & Real Application10:35 - How to Break Up With a Therapist Without Ghosting12:44 - Clinical Detachment vs. Real Connection (ASL Access & Cultural Fit)14:36 - What is ART Therapy? (Accelerated Resolution Therapy Explained)16:31 - "It’s Not Me, It’s Her": You Are the Client, Not the Caretaker22:18 - Email vs. Face-to-Face: How to Communicate the Breakup24:19 - Stop Over-Apologizing for Taking Up Space26:26 - Weekly Reset Homework: The "No Sorry" Challenge27:58 - Share Your Worst Therapy Stories & Outro-------------------------------------------------- CONNECT & LISTEN: Follow on Instagram: @deafinitelynottheone Follow on TikTok: @deafinitelynottheone Join the Facebook Community: @deafinitelynottheone-------------------------------------------------- THIS WEEK'S HOMEWORK ASSIGNMENT:Go an entire day without saying "sorry." Stop softening your boundaries, stop apologizing for asking questions, and stop saying "sorry" when stating your availability. "No" and "I can't" are complete sentences. Try it this week and report back in the comments!-------------------------------------------------- ⚖️ DISCLAIMER:The content presented in this video and podcast represents personal experiences, opinions, and general educational dialogue. This content is for informational and entertainment purposes only and does not constitute professional medical, clinical, or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of a qualified healthcare or mental health provider regarding any individual health concerns or conditions.

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  Shedding Your Old Self: Setting Hard Boundaries & Overcoming People-Pleasing in Your 30s

  Aug 4, 202634 minS2

  Are you holding onto a version of yourself that no longer serves where you're going? In this episode of DEAFinitely Not The One, Tori and Taja dive deep into what it really looks like to shed your old self, let go of 20s mindsets, and step into unshakeable boundaries in your 30s.We’re getting honest about the subtle ways we used to people-please, how self-abandonment sneaks into relationships and careers, and what happens when you choose your internal peace over a six-figure salary or societal expectations. KEY TALKING POINTS:• Post-Check: Navigating school, career stress, and 5 layers of intimacy [00:00:40]• Shedding the Old Self: Why your 20s self feels like a "long-distance cousin" [00:03:14]• Unpacking Subtle People-Pleasing & Self-Abandonment [00:06:55]• "My Time Is Not To Be Played With": Standing firm on 30s boundaries [00:12:10]• Choosing Peace Over Status: Leaving 6-figure corporate careers [00:25:30]• Operating as "Human Beings" instead of "Human Doings" [00:29:00] CHAPTER TIMESTAMPS:[00:00:00] Weekly Pulse Check & Life Updates[00:03:14] The Theme: Shedding Your Past Self & Identity Shifts[00:05:45] "I Don't Know Her": Looking Back at Your 20s[00:06:55] Identifying Hidden People-Pleasing & Self-Sabotage[00:12:10] Lowering Your Tolerance & Protecting Your Energy[00:18:00] Academia & Pivoting Careers in Your Mid-30s[00:25:30] Walking Away From 6-Figures to Find Inner Peace[00:29:00] Human Beings vs. Human Doings: Learning Patience[00:32:00] Episode Homework Challenge: Drop Your Old Habit Below! WEEKLY HOMEWORK CHALLENGE:What is ONE old habit or pattern that no longer serves the new version of you? Drop yours in the comments below so we can keep each other accountable! SUBSCRIBE & CONNECT WITH US:Follow along as we navigate dating, growth, career shifts, and real talk in our 30s.#SheddingOldSelf #BoundariesInYour30s #OvercomingPeoplePleasing #DEAFinitelyNotTheOne #SelfGrowth #CareerPivot #PersonalDevelopment

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  Why Abstinence Hits Different in Your 30s: Celibacy, FWB Traps & Setting Boundaries

  Jul 28, 202637 minS2

  Are you taking a break from dating or rethinking who gets access to your body and energy? In this episode of DEAFinitely Not The One, we dive deep into the real difference between celibacy and abstinence—and why secular, non-religious singles are suddenly embracing abstinence in modern dating.From navigating "skin hunger" (touch deprivation) as a single adult to avoiding the Friends With Benefits (FWB) trap and breaking soul ties, we’re having an unfiltered conversation about taking your power back, setting boundaries on dating apps, and practicing your "Holy NO." KEY TALKING POINTS:• Celibacy vs. Abstinence: Spiritual commitment vs. circumstantial boundaries [00:03:46]• Purity vs. Power: Why withholding access in your 30s feels empowering [00:11:05]• The FWB Trap: Energy exchanges, lack of aftercare, and feeling empty [00:13:12]• Understanding "Skin Hunger": How to deal with touch deprivation while waiting [00:21:33]• Digital Dating App Boundaries: Saying NO to unsolicited expectations [00:25:35]• Overcommunicating & Red Flags: How to protect yourself before intimacy [00:29:05] EPISODE TIMESTAMPS:[00:00:00] Intro & Winter Slowdown Check-In[00:01:44] Rating Our Self-Discipline (1–10 Scale)[00:03:46] Celibacy vs. Abstinence: Defining the Difference[00:05:43] Why Non-Religious Singles Are Choosing Abstinence[00:07:34] Taking a Break in Your 30s vs. Your 20s[00:11:05] Purity vs. Power: Guarding Your Access[00:13:12] Friends with Benefits & Energy Exchanges[00:15:29] Why "Aftercare" Matters in Intimacy[00:16:39] Soul Ties & Emotional Confusion[00:21:33] What is "Skin Hunger"? (Touch Deprivation Explained)[00:25:35] Navigating Dating Apps & Setting Firm Boundaries[00:29:05] Protection, Overcommunication & Spotting Red Flags[00:33:00] Reframing Abstinence: What Are You Gaining vs. Losing?[00:36:11] Big Sister Advice: Seeking Security over Temporary Fun[00:38:48] Weekly Challenge: Practicing Your "Holy NO" JOIN THE CONVERSATION:Where are you on your self-discipline scale right now (1-10)? Are you practicing celibacy, abstinence, or navigating modern dating? Drop your thoughts below!#DatingAdvice #Celibacy #Abstinence #ModernDating #DEAFinitelyNotTheOne #SoulTies #BoundarySetting #PodcastForWomen

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  Reinventing Yourself in Your 30s (Grad School, ADHD, & Overcoming Failure)

  Jul 21, 202634 minS2

  Are you feeling stuck, paralyzed by options, or wondering if it's too late to completely reinvent yourself? In this episode of Deafinitely Not The One Podcast, we are opening up about our 1-year hiatus, returning to grad school in our 30s, navigating ADHD and academic paralysis, and why failing in the past doesn't mean your story is over. From pursuing a Master’s in Social Work & Human Sexuality to writing books while terrified, we’re talking about what it really takes to bet on yourself and write a "goodbye letter" to your past self. Subscribe to the channel for weekly conversations on growth, relationships, and unlearned lessons TIMESTAMPS:00:00 - We Didn't Go Into Witness Protection (Why Silence Isn't Failure)01:23 - The Growing Up Era: Hitting Your 30s Different07:05 - Weekly Pulse Check & Overcoming Academic Anxiety08:25 - The Gut Health Challenge & Holistic Productivity12:20 - Dropping Perfectionism & Celebrating Small Wins14:00 - Failing Grad School in 2016 vs. Bouncing Back Now22:00 - Pursuing Sex Therapy, Human Sexuality, & Big Dreams24:20 - The Hidden Struggle of ADHD in Academics25:30 - Doing It Scared: Writing a Book When You Feel Stuck30:40 - Listener Homework: Write a Goodbye Letter to Your Past Self RESOURCES & LINKS MENTIONED:• 42 Day Glow Up Challenge (Gut Health Info): https://youtu.be/TXbg3ZUsdC8?si=0VCMhmuQmH40OS1v• Follow us on Instagram: @deafintelynottheone• Follow us on TikTok: @deafintelynottheone#Podcasting #ReinventYourself #GradSchoolInYour30s #ADHD #PersonalGrowth #DeafinitelyNotTheOne

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