Parenting Post-Wilderness: Parenting a Struggling Teen Before, During and After Treatment

Your guide to parenting a struggling teen or young-adult, whether they’re home, transitioning home, or presently in treatment. Parents, say goodbye to exhausting confusion, overwhelm, panic and the unhelpful patterns that keep you and your family stuck. Learn how to develop healthy responses and set healthy boundaries with your teen instead of acting out of fear and anxiety. Experience the relationship-changing power of focusing on your own behavior instead of futile attempts to control your teen. Your guides to Parenting Post-wilderness are Beth Hillman, a life coach for parents of struggling teens and mom to a post-wilderness teen, and part-time co-host Seth Gottlieb, a wilderness therapy guide turned teen and young-adult recovery coach. Their unique combination of experience and training yields candid conversations chock full of practical, actionable tips and tools to smooth the challenges both parents and teens experience surrounding treatment. <br

Parenting Post-Wilderness: Parenting a Struggling Teen Before, During and After Treatment is a kids podcast hosted by Unknown Host, with 211 episodes on record and a Required Pod Score of 80. PitchCentric scores this show on Booking Probability, Listen Score, and live audience signals refreshed every 24 hours.

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  Episode #210

  210. Relapse Is Imminent, But Your Teen Isn’t Back at Square One

  Sep 1, 202636 min

  Small GROUP COACHING program starting October 6th & 7th, 2026 How to Influence Change: Small-group program for parents of struggling teens & young adults. Sign up or learn more over at www.bethhillmancoaching.com/groups I hope to see you there! You see old behaviors showing up again and your first thought is, “Oh no. Are we back here again?”. When you’ve worked so hard to support your struggling teen, a relapse, or even the return of an old pattern, can feel terrifying. Believe me, I know. It can bring back anxiety, urgency, and the instinct to jump in, fix things, or make sure everything is okay. But relapse doesn’t mean that all the progress is gone. It doesn’t mean you’re back at square one. In this episode, Seth and I have a deeply honest conversation about relapse, setbacks, and what happens when life gets messy again. I even share a very recent experience in my own family that brought old patterns back to the surface and reminded me that doing the work doesn’t create a life free from difficult emotions, conflict, or uncertainty. Instead, the work gives you something much more valuable: the ability to recognize what’s happening, sit with discomfort, manage your own anxiety, and choose how you want to show up. Because relapse is imminent in the sense that none of us are robots. Old patterns can resurface. Anger can show up again. Avoidance can return. Relationships can become difficult again. And when that happens, it doesn’t mean you’re back at square one. It means you’re human. In this episode on how relapse is imminent, we discuss: Why relapse and setbacks don’t mean that your previous progress has disappeared What happens when old patterns resurface in your family How your anxiety can influence a struggling teen who is already overwhelmed Why sometimes the most supportive thing you can do is give your teen space How shame and embarrassment can cause your teen to isolate The difference between being present for your teen and trying to rescue or fix them Why your problems may not disappear, but your ability to handle them can change How to recognize the difference between facts and the stories your anxious brain is creating What it means to witness your teen without needing them to change or repair immediately Why taking care of yourself is essential when you’re supporting a struggling teen Looking for support? ️Need help setting healthy boundaries with your teen AND following through? My free guide will help you do so by creating your own Parent Home Plan! Learn how to respond in hard moments, without losing your cool, the relationship, or yourself, inside my 6-week Boundaries Masterclass . Influence lasting change in yourself and your struggling teen with my private coaching or parent group program specifically created for parents of struggling teens. Have a question or need support? You can email me at beth@bethhillmancoaching.com You can support the show by: → Leaving a review → Subscribing to the show → Sharing it with another parent! And remember parents, the change begins with us. Small GROUP COACHING program starting October 6th & 7th, 2026 How to Influence Change: Small-group program for parents of struggling teens & young adults. Sign up or learn more over at www.bethhillmancoaching.com/groups I hope to see you there!

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  Episode #209

  209. Talking to Your Kids About Porn: Prevention Isn’t Enough With Jarrod Hoffman

  Aug 25, 202629 min

  Prevention isn’t going to protect your child from seeing porn. You might think that if you set parental controls, keep devices out of bedrooms, and have the “right” conversations about online safety, you can protect your child from porn, but prevention simply isn’t enough. The reality is that porn can find our kids long before we expect them to encounter it. (Jarrod even shares that the average age of the first encounter is 6!!) Sometimes it comes through a friend. Sometimes an algorithm puts it in front of them. And sometimes, they stumble across it without looking for it at all. That can be a scary thought as a parent. You may worry about what your child is seeing, whether they're becoming exposed too young, or whether bringing up the subject will somehow introduce an idea they haven't encountered yet. You might also feel unsure about what to say, or even embarrassed to start the conversation. In this episode, I’m joined by licensed professional counselor Jarrod Hoffman, who brings both professional experience and his own deeply personal experience with unwanted sexual behavior to this conversation. We talk openly about why shame can make it so difficult for kids to tell their parents what’s going on, and why our relationship with our kids can be one of the most important forms of protection we have. We also talk about why blocking access and setting technology boundaries still matter, but they can't be the whole strategy. If exposure is inevitable, our goal has to be bigger than simply keeping the water out of the boat. We need to make sure our kids know that when something uncomfortable, confusing, or shame-filled happens, they can turn toward us rather than hide from us. And that means talking to your kids about porn, not just once, but regularly, calmly, and in a way that leaves the door open for them to come back to you. In this episode on talking to your kids about porn, we discuss: Why porn can find kids even when they're not actively looking for it How young kids can be exposed to porn and other sexualized content Why prevention and technology boundaries are helpful, but aren't enough The role of shame in keeping kids from talking to their parents Why connection is such an important part of protecting your child How to start talking to your kids about porn in a developmentally appropriate way Why these conversations need to happen repeatedly rather than just once How to create an ongoing invitation for your child to come to you if they need help What parents can learn from kids about the pull and power of sexual content How unwanted sexual behavior can be connected to deeper experiences of shame, pain, or disconnection Resources that can help you continue the conversation More about Jarrod Hoffman Jarrod is a licensed professional counselor. He believes that teens are resilient and that parents are valuable. He was a teenage boy himself from 2004-2011. He loves reading books and is still on the fence about Messi or Renaldo. He's experienced many life-changes like his parents divorce when he was 10 and his dad's death when he was 28. He strives to help others find healing from wounds and triumph through suffering. You can contact Jarrod at jarrod@jarrodhoffman.com Looking for support? ️Need help setting healthy boundaries with your teen AND following through? My free guide will help you do so by creating your own Parent Home Plan! Learn how to respond in hard moments, without losing your cool, the relationship, or yourself, inside my 6-week Boundaries Masterclass . Influence lasting change in yourself and your struggling teen with my private coaching or parent group program specifically created for parents of struggling teens. Have a question or need support? You can email me at beth@bethhillmancoaching.com You can support the show by: → Leaving a review → Subscribing to the show → Sharing it with another parent! And remember parents, the change begins with us.

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  Episode #208

  208. Teaching Emotional Resilience to Teens and Young Adults With Dr. Jerry Weichman

  Aug 18, 202640 min

  Teaching emotional resilience isn't about making your teen's life easier. On the contrary. t's about helping them discover they're capable of handling life's hardest moments. If you're parenting a struggling teen or young adult, that can feel almost impossible. Every setback, relapse, or difficult season can trigger fear, making it tempting to step in and protect your child from pain. But what if those challenges are exactly what help build the emotional resilience they'll need for the rest of their life? In this episode, I'm joined again by clinical psychologist and parenting expert Dr. Jerry Weichman to explore what emotional resilience really looks like and how parents can foster it, even if their child is already a young adult. We discuss why resilience can be learned at any age, how overprotecting our children can unintentionally hold them back, and why setbacks or recidivism are often a normal part of lasting change. Whether your child is currently in treatment, transitioning home, or finding their way after treatment, this conversation offers hope and practical guidance for navigating the ups and downs of recovery with greater confidence and trust. In this episode on teaching your teen or young adult emotional resilience, we discuss: Why it's never too late to teach emotional resilience What prevents teens and young adults from developing resilience How parents model emotional resilience through their own behavior Why protecting your child from every struggle can backfire The role of adversity in building confidence and resilience Why setbacks and recidivism are a normal part of recovery How to trust your teen while letting go of what you can't control The difference between influence and control in parenting Why community and honest conversations help parents build resilience too Resources from Dr. Jerry Weichman to support your family More about Dr. Jerry Weichman Dr. Jerry Weichman, PsyD, a clinical psychologist, adolescent mental health specialist, and parenting expert, is the founder and creator of Raising Families , a free-to-access platform and trusted go-to resource for pro-active parents that provides real-life tools, systems and solutions for navigating today’s most common mental health challenges impacting children and families. Looking for support? ️Need help setting healthy boundaries with your teen AND following through? My free guide will help you do so by creating your own Parent Home Plan! Learn how to respond in hard moments, without losing your cool, the relationship, or yourself, inside my 6-week Boundaries Masterclass . Influence lasting change in yourself and your struggling teen with my private coaching or parent group program specifically created for parents of struggling teens. Have a question or need support? You can email me at beth@bethhillmancoaching.com You can support the show by: → Leaving a review → Subscribing to the show → Sharing it with another parent! And remember parents, the change begins with us.

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  Episode #207

  207. Don't Wait for a Crisis: Building Support Before Your Teen Needs It

  Aug 11, 202637 min

  When your family is in crisis, the last thing you want to do is start the orientation process of finding support. You need help - ASAP. So that time when things feel a bit calmer, and your teen seems to be doing okay, might actually be the best time to build the support system they'll need for the road ahead. In this episode, Seth Gottlieb joins me to explore why waiting until your family is in crisis often makes it harder to get the right help in place. We discuss the unique roles of therapists, mentors, and parent coaches, why they aren't interchangeable, and how creating a strong support system before problems escalate can make all the difference for both you and your teen. If you're looking for support for parents of struggling teens, we’ll help you think beyond crisis management and toward proactive, long-term support. Whether your teen is returning home from treatment, resistant to therapy, or simply navigating a difficult season, building the right team early can create stronger relationships, better communication, and more sustainable progress. In this episode on support for parents of struggling teens, we discuss: Why it's better to build support before your teen reaches a crisis The differences between therapists, mentors, and parent coaches How mentors help teens discover their own goals and build independence Why many teens respond differently to mentors than to therapists or parents When to introduce additional support during or after treatment How proactive support can reduce the likelihood of future crises Why parents often wait too long to ask for help, and how to recognize the signs sooner The importance of continuing support, even when things seem to be going well How parents can shift from crisis management to long-term growth and healthier family dynamics Looking for support? ️Need help setting healthy boundaries with your teen AND following through? My free guide will help you do so by creating your own Parent Home Plan! Learn how to respond in hard moments, without losing your cool, the relationship, or yourself, inside my 6-week Boundaries Masterclass . Influence lasting change in yourself and your struggling teen with my private coaching or parent group program specifically created for parents of struggling teens. Have a question or need support? You can email me at beth@bethhillmancoaching.com You can support the show by: → Leaving a review → Subscribing to the show → Sharing it with another parent! And remember parents, the change begins with us.

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  Episode #206

  206. What's Behind Your Teen's Behavior? Looking Beyond the Lies, Anger & Power Struggles

  Aug 4, 202630 min

  Your teen’s behavior is never just that. They’re not lying because they want to, they’re not missing curfew because they want to annoy you, and they’re not pulling you into power struggles because they enjoy it. There’s always something underneath the behavior, so let’s try to understand. As a parent, it's natural to react to the behavior that's right in front of you. After all, being lied to hurts. Anger feels personal. Deception feels like a betrayal. But when you stay focused on the behavior alone, you can miss what's happening underneath it. In this episode, Seth and I explore how behaviors like lying, manipulation, anger, and avoidance are often protective strategies rather than the root issue. Because even when you've worked hard to become a calmer, safer parent, your teen may still struggle to be honest with you. Creating emotional safety doesn’t happen overnight. It’s a long game. You'll also learn why you don't have to address every behavior in the moment, how timing can make all the difference, and how curiosity can open the door to deeper connection instead of another exhausting power struggle. If you've ever wondered why your teen keeps repeating the same behaviors despite your best efforts, this conversation will help you look beyond the surface and respond with greater understanding and intention. In this episode on what's behind your teen's behavior, we discuss: Why lying, anger, and other challenging behaviors are often symptoms, not the real problem. How to look beyond your teen's behavior to understand what's really going on. Why your teen may still hide the truth, even when you're working hard to create a safe relationship. The difference between reacting to behavior and responding with curiosity. How to avoid getting pulled into power struggles that distract from the real issue. Why timing matters when addressing difficult behaviors. Practical ways to create emotional safety and invite honest conversations with your teen. How patience and consistent connection can strengthen your relationship with your child over time. Looking for support? ️Need help setting healthy boundaries with your teen AND following through? My free guide will help you do so by creating your own Parent Home Plan! Learn how to respond in hard moments, without losing your cool, the relationship, or yourself, inside my 6-week Boundaries Masterclass . Influence lasting change in yourself and your struggling teen with my private coaching or parent group program specifically created for parents of struggling teens. Have a question or need support? You can email me at beth@bethhillmancoaching.com You can support the show by: → Leaving a review → Subscribing to the show → Sharing it with another parent! And remember parents, the change begins with us. Live workshop: Learning to live with (maybe even love) THE MANY FACES OF ADHD ️ Monday, August 10, 2026 ⏰ 5:30-7:00PM MT | 6:30-8:00PM CT | 7:30-9:00PM ET Live on Zoom (Recordings available) Register now at https://bethhillmancoaching.com/adhd

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