
Episode #19
S4 E19 From Fear to Freedom: Redefining What Deserves Your Energy
In the final solo episode of this season of Notes on Vulnerability, Alex makes the case for why "I just don't care anymore" isn't a red flag - it's often the first sign of real freedom. Alex breaks down why not giving a fuck isn't about becoming selfish or numbing out, but about redirecting your energy away from fear, approval-seeking, and performative "adulthood" milestones, and toward what actually matters to you. Drawing on years of coaching experience (and her own life), she explores: Why "I don't care anymore" is usually a sign something's shifting, not a red flag The difference between giving up and becoming free Why so many "adults" still run their lives on fear, not maturity The subtle but powerful swaps that change everything (approval vs. self-approval, being liked vs. being authentic) A closing question to help you figure out what deserves your fucks β and what doesn't This episode wraps up a season that's covered burnout, shame, boundaries, the nervous system, identity, and more, with guests ranging from barristers to the world's strongest disabled woman. If you've been following along, this is the thread tying it all together. Find Alex: Instagram @alexresiliencecoach | shore-coaching.com If you enjoyed this episode you can sign up for 5 Resilience Coaching Questions to Change Your Life . Here are links for: Exploring The Herbtender range of wellness solutions ( use code ADAPT20 for 20%). 1:1 resilience coaching - book a free intro call here . Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/paul-yudin/breaking-ideas License code: 6NHMOGUA1OQR97OC

