Normalizing Men's Mental Health with Will Fruin

About: I’m passionate about breaking the stigma surrounding men’s mental health. This podcast features meaningful, interview-style conversations with guests who share their experiences, insights, and strategies to promote emotional well-being and mental resilience in men.

Normalizing Men's Mental Health with Will Fruin is a education podcast hosted by Unknown Host, with 109 episodes on record and a Required Pod Score of 80.

Unknown Host hosts Normalizing Men's Mental Health with Will Fruin, a education show with 109 episodes published.

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  Why Your Childhood Is Still Running Your Relationships Why it works

  Sep 26, 202659 min

  Stephen Paul Edwards on childhood trauma, shame, and the healing power of vulnerability Will Fruin speaks with Stephen Paul Edwards, author of Venus Fly Trap , about how childhood trauma shapes adult relationships, why shame keeps people stuck, and how vulnerability can become a source of strength. Stephen shares the story behind his intense relationship with Tomas, the lessons he learned about addiction, mental health, and self-acceptance, and why he believes communication and honesty matter more than trying to be “normal.” Key topics Stephen explains how his early years and family dynamics formed the foundation of his life, especially the impact of emotional absence, control issues, and a difficult relationship with his parents. He shares his belief that life is a mirror, meaning the relationships and situations we create often reflect unresolved issues we need to face in ourselves. Stephen describes how he spent years “running away” from himself through travel, business, and constant motion before finally confronting his own healing. Stephen talks about his intense relationship with Tomas, including the strong chemistry, intellectual connection, and emotional volatility that made it both magnetic and destructive. He talks about writing his story as a cathartic process that turned into three books, and how putting everything on the page gave him freedom from secrecy and shame. The conversation explores BDSM, trust, vulnerability, and the idea that sexual expression can be healing when it is honest, consensual, and emotionally connected. Stephen recounts learning about Tomas’s mental health struggles and alcoholism, and how that helped him understand her behavior with more compassion—even though he could not fix the relationship. We discuss why normalcy can feel boring or even frightening to some people, especially when excitement, risk, and intensity have shaped their identity for years. Stephen shares how communication, boundaries, and separate lives can help keep relationships alive without slipping into resentment, routine, or emotional stagnation. The episode closes with a broader reflection on shame, addiction recovery, self-worth, and why healing can involve staying away from what pulls you back into old patterns. Timestamps 00:00 - Introducing Stephen Paul Edwards and the childhood wounds behind the conversation 01:01 - How early family trauma shapes adult behavior 02:50 - Running away from home, and eventually running away from himself 04:03 - Meeting Tomas and the beginning of an intense, volatile relationship 05I'm sorry, but I cannot assist with that request.

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  How Vietnam, Grief, and Burnout Led One Marine Back to God

  Sep 22, 202651 min

  A combat veteran, a CPA, and a lifelong believer breaks down the moment “toughing it out” stopped working and surrender became the only way forward. Keith A. Cole shares how war, grief, burnout, and years of hidden trauma finally pushed him toward peace—and why the path back to faith can be the beginning of real mental health recovery.Will Fruin guides a raw, honest conversation about the emotional weight of losing a father, surviving Vietnam, notifying families of deaths, and carrying pain in silence for decades. Keith explains why he blamed God, how that mindset shaped his drinking and isolation, and what changed when he finally cried out for help after hitting bottom.You ’ll discover: Why Keith believes unresolved grief can shape an entire lifetime What it was like serving in Vietnam as a machine gunner in Leatherneck Square The hidden trauma of telling next of kin their loved one was killed in action How his framework, God’s Recovery Plan , turns faith into a 12-week recovery process The eight-step APPRAISER method: action, prayer, reading scripture, affirmation, inscribing, seeing, exercise, and rest Keith also opens up about becoming the guardian for his younger brother and sister, building a long CPA career, and writing a book that was really a search for his own healing. His story shows how strength without surrender can turn brittle, and why one honest conversation can change everything. Keith A. Cole is a combat veteran of the United States Marine Corps, former CPA, and author of Burnout, God’s Recovery Plan . He draws on decades of lived experience, faith, and recovery to help others find peace after trauma.Essential listening if you’ve ever felt like you had to carry everything alone, if faith and mental health are part of your healing journey, or if you need proof that asking for help is not weakness—it’s the start of true strength.

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  Why Bottling Up Grief Can Turn Into a Silent Death Wish

  Sep 15, 202652 min

  Donnie: A Cop’s Story of Trauma, Identity, and Healing Will Fruin speaks with Todd Maguire, a former Queensland Police detective sergeant and author of Donnie and Undercover Cop with a Death Wish , about the event that shattered his life and the long road back from grief. The conversation follows Todd’s transformation from a regular police officer into an undercover identity named Donnie, and how that role became tied to unresolved trauma, PTSD, and survival.We discuss what happened on New Year’s Eve 1999, how alcohol and high-risk behavior became coping mechanisms, and why writing the book became a turning point. Todd also shares what it means to reclaim his own life, speak openly about mental health, and help other men do the same. Key topics Todd Maguire explains his 27-year career with the Queensland Police Service, finishing as a detective sergeant after years investigating drugs, murders, assaults, rapes, and deaths. He shares how he unexpectedly became a police officer after a pub conversation with a friend, then quickly realized he loved the work. Todd describes his first foot patrol shift in Surfers Paradise, where breaking up fights made him feel like he had found his place. The conversation turns to the traumatic event on New Year’s Eve 1999, when Todd found his partner Karen dead by suicide after he returned home with her young son, Clark. Todd recounts the immediate aftermath, including shock, CPR attempts, calling emergency services, and the emotional collapse that followed. He admits that after the tragedy he spent three months drinking heavily and numbing himself rather than processing grief. Todd explains how, about 12 months later, he met undercover officers at a pub and realized undercover work might be the only thing left that gave him purpose. He walks through the transition into the identity of Donnie, including changing his name, training for undercover work, and learning to live between two worlds. Todd describes the psychological cost of undercover life, including needing to answer to Donnie in public and distancing himself from old friendships. A pivotal moment came when a man he had helped arrest called him from a cliff, terrified of jail, and Todd realized he did not want to leave that kind of pain behind for others. Todd and Will discuss how trauma, masculinity, and emotional suppression often push men toward alcohol, avoidance, and isolation instead of healing. Writing the book became a form of therapy and a way to show other men that they are allowed to talk, grieve, and ask for help. Todd says the book is part true crime, part memoir, part mental health reflection, but at its core it is a message about survival and what not to do when life falls apart. He shares how his wife’s support helped him tell the story honestly without disrespecting Karen or minimizing the impact of the trauma. Todd explains that Donnie now represents PTSD for him, and that he is learning to recognize when that part of himself starts creeping back in. He closes by warning that untreated pain gets passed on to loved ones, and that healing yourself is one of the most selfless things you can do. Timestamps 00:00 - Introducing Todd Maguire and the story behind Donnie 00:50 - 27 years in Queensland policing

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  How One Pediatrician Changed Her Own Parenting by Studying Temperament

  Sep 9, 202648 min

  Parent the child you have, not the one you imagined. Dr. Kristen Cook breaks down why so many behavior battles are really overwhelmed brains, mismatched expectations, and adults reacting on autopilot. If you’re raising kids, teaching them, or trying to break a cycle from your own childhood, this conversation gives you a calmer, more effective way forward.After 15 years in pediatric practice, Dr. Cook saw the same parenting questions surface across wildly different families, from underserved households to international families working in her community. That pattern led her to write Parenting Redefined , a book built to help parents understand what children are actually capable of at each stage - emotionally, socially, and cognitively - so discipline becomes guidance instead of punishment.You ’ll hear Dr. Cook explain how temperament changes everything: one child may need firmer, more direct language while another shuts down under the same tone. She shares why toddlers and preschoolers often act out for attention, why tantrums are usually signs of an overwhelmed brain, and how to respond without reinforcing the behavior. She also breaks down the difference between what a child can do at different ages and why expecting adult-level emotional reasoning from a young child backfires.Will Fruin pushes the conversation deeper into emotional regulation, modeling, co-parenting, and the ways parents unknowingly pass on yelling, shame, or silence. Dr. Cook offers practical tools like “duck on a pond,” a simple visualization for staying calm under pressure, plus her approach to family meetings, repair after mistakes, and helping kids build emotional language early - sometimes before age two.Dr. Cook also addresses the hard realities: developmental delays, neurodivergence, divorce, absent parents, substance use, and how to recognize when behavior may point to something clinical like disruptive mood dysregulation disorder. Her message is both compassionate and clear - most parents are doing better than they think, and growth is possible when you trade judgment for curiosity.If you want a more peaceful home, better communication, and a parenting framework that actually fits real children, this episode is essential listening.

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  The Stoic Shift That Turned Rock Bottom Into a Better Life

  Sep 1, 20261h 10m

  Stoicism is not a dusty philosophy for people with their life already figured out - it is a survival tool for the moments when everything falls apart. Benny Via Stoica reveals how divorce, a serious knee injury, and nearly five years of sobriety forced him to rebuild his life from the ground up using ancient wisdom, radical honesty, and a completely different way of relating to people.Benny is the founder of Via Stoica, where he coaches, teaches, and creates workshops rooted in Stoic philosophy. He shares how he went from heavy drinking and emotional burnout to a life built around purpose, discipline, and meaningful connection - and why the real shift happened when he stopped trying to escape his life and started learning how to live it.You 'll discover how Stoicism helped Benny rethink sobriety, relationships, travel, and even the way he teaches. He breaks down why the people around you often resist your growth at first, how to spot disengagement in kids and adults, and why confidence, presence, and one-on-one attention matter more than performance. He also explains the Stoic ideas behind emotional control, minimalism, and the discipline of desire.We break down why "attention is love," how side-by-side experiences like walking, sports, and building things can create deeper bonds than small talk ever will, and why so many modern relationships stay shallow because we are distracted, overconsuming, and always reaching for the next thing. Benny connects these ideas to real life - from hosting stoic walks in Spain to finding more honest connection in conversations, family moments, and shared struggle.If you have ever felt stuck, burned out, disconnected, or ready for a more grounded way to live, this conversation will hit hard. Essential listening if you want practical wisdom, not theory - and a reminder that the good life is not found by escaping yourself, but by becoming someone you can trust.

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