
Mothers' Hood
17 - If one More Person tells me to Have a Bath I'll Scream! Self-Care + Why We're Getting it so Wrong. Solo Epiosde.
If one more person tells you to just take some time for yourself while you're drowning, this one's for you. In this solo episode, I go off on the self-care industry and why taking a bath is not the answer to your rage, your burnout, or your lack of capacity. Self-care has become another job on the to-do list, dressed up as wellness and sold back to us. And underneath it all? A whole lot of unexamined beliefs about why women can't put themselves first in the first place. I get honest about my own early motherhood and why 'just relax' was never going to cut it. I digs into boundaries and how bloody uncomfortable they are to hold, the people-pleasing conditioning that follows women into motherhood, and the mindset work that actually moves the needle not another bubble bath. Plus: the wellness industry is worth $224 billion in the UK alone, and women's mental health is still in crisis. Sam breaks down why those two facts are connected, and why the answer was never a spa day. In this episode: Why self-care so often means another job, not a break The link between the wellness industry, beauty standards, and money My own postpartum story - anxiety, undiagnosed ADHD, and why baths never worked The mindset and beliefs that stop women putting themselves first What it actually takes to hold a boundary and why it hurts Why the fix was never a spa day If you've ever felt guilty for resting, exhausted by self-care, or like you're failing at looking after yourself no matter what you try, this one's for you. If you're back at work and even thinking about looking after yourself feels exhausting on top of juggling everything else, this one's for you. Ready to stop over-giving and start reclaiming your own boundaries? Book a no-obligation Clarity Call with me and find out what working together actually looks like. Book here MOTHERS’ HOOD If this episode or any other resonated with you, I'd love to hear from you. Email me: samantha@mothershood.co.uk Or come and find me here: www.mothershood.co.uk Instagram: @mothers.hood Facebook: @mothershoodtribe LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/samantha-murrell-03966132/





