
Episode #20
The Fear of Bulking Up: Why It Isn't Only About Getting Bigger and What Perimenopause Can Resurface
Almost every new client asks me some version of the same question before we even get into her program: "Will lifting weights make me bulky?" In this episode, I'm taking that fear seriously instead of brushing past it with reassurance. We'll get into the physiology first — why men naturally carry more baseline muscle than women, what a 2025 meta-analysis out of Deakin University found when it looked at how men and women build muscle relative to their own starting point, and what it would take for a woman to bulk up on purpose (spoiler: it's a lot more than picking up a dumbbell). Then I want to go somewhere I haven't gone publicly before. For some women, the fear of bulking up isn't about muscle at all. Perimenopause is a documented window for old eating patterns to resurface, especially for those of us who carried body image struggles or disordered eating earlier in life. I share a part of my own story here for the first time, including a moment that changed everything for me. If you've ever avoided weight training because you were afraid of what it would do to your body, or if the fear underneath that question feels bigger than muscle, this episode is for you. If any part of this episode resonated with you, the Midlife Reset Assessment is exactly who I built it for. It's a strategy call where we look at your training, your nutrition, and your history together, so you can get clarity on what's actually keeping you stuck and where to focus your energy next.Click on the link below to book your free assessment. https://pages.erikapimentelcoaching.com/home


