Love Under the Scope

<p>Some breakups hit us like a truck. The deep well of emotion that we're faced with after a breakup can make us feel alone, rejected, helpless and lost (to name a few). We might wonder if we'll ever be happy...

<p>It's a question so many of us in relationships have asked: can you keep the passion alive, even after so many years together? The short answer is YES! The long answer is best captured by listening to the full...

<p>In this episode of Love Under the Scope, we'll explore the complexities of emotional comfort in relationships. We'll get into the importance of understanding emotional triggers, how to offer and receive comfort...

<p>The source of your triggers with your partner might not be what you think. Often times, we default to projecting and blaming our partner for all of our problems. </p><p>News flash: that tactic isn't going to help you...

<p>Your core beliefs about the opposite sex inform the very foundation of your relationship and/or dating life. Frustrating patterns that come up for you over and over again around men (or women) can be traced back to...

<p>Developing a crush on someone outside of our relationship can be an uncomfortable experience. It's a situation that can lead to heavy feelings of shame, unworthiness and misunderstanding of ourselves. </p><p>The...

<p>Control in relationships isn't something that only narcissists engage in. So many of us impose subtle, even subconscious, controlling behaviors on our partners. This type of dynamic can happen to the best of us...

<p>In this episode of Love Under the Scope, we'll explore connection (and disconnection!) in relationships. </p><p>I'll start out by defining connection - what is it actually? Then, we'll get into why disconnection...

<p>Do you ever get that feeling of being alone, even when you're with your partner? Loneliness in relationships is a common phenomenon. </p><p>In this episode, we'll dive into how we can create our own sense of...

<p>In this episode, we explore what toxicity in relationships really means, how it develops, and why it’s not always about one “bad” person. We discuss the patterns and behaviors - often rooted in childhood - that can...

<p>In this episode of Love Under the Scope, we’ll explore how self-sabotage can surface in long-term relationships and the childhood roots that often shape these patterns. We’ll look at the many ways the “inner...

<p>Arguments are par for the course when we're in a long-term committed relationship. If we're trying to understand each other, there are going to be misunderstandings. But why does this conflict occur? In this episode...

<p>Our desire for sex can vary greatly across relationships, especially when we meet someone that we feel fully safe with. In this episode, Kelby discusses her experience with sexuality from her dating years up into her...

<p>In the very first episode of Love Under the Scope, host and certified relationship coach Kelby Lauren sets the stage for a raw, honest, and deeply personal exploration of long-term relationships. Kelby shares her...