Episode #10
The Way We Learn Love
Send us Fan Mail For a long time, I think I confused being willing to sacrifice for someone with what it meant to truly love them. If I could show up enough, give enough, carry enough, choose you enough… maybe eventually I’d feel chosen too. But somewhere along the way, I had to ask myself a harder question: Do I love through sacrifice because that’s how I love or because sacrifice became the way I learned to prove I was worth loving? In this episode of the Lost Loverboy Podcast, I talk about my own relationship with being picked, the ways our earliest experiences with love can follow us into adulthood, and what I’m beginning to unlearn about the kind of love I’ve spent my life looking for. Maybe love isn’t supposed to require me to constantly prove what I’m willing to lose for it. Maybe the unlearning is realizing I don’t have to sacrifice myself to finally feel chosen. Viewer discretion is advised for this love-themed podcast. The content may contain discussions of sensitive topics related to relationships, dating, and love. Some content may not be suitable for all listeners, especially those uncomfortable with open and vulnerable conversations. We encourage our listeners to practice self-care and to reach out to a trusted friend or professional if they need support. If you have no friends, you have me! Welcome to the Lost Loverboy Podcast! Support the show Join the Lover's House Discord to connect with Demetri Wiley and fellow enthusiasts! Share your experiences, seek advice, and celebrate romance within a welcoming community. Don't miss out—join us today: https://discord.com/servers/the-lovers-house-1345240227538538617 You can also purchase Lost Loverboy merchandise at https://demetriwiley.com/shop
