
Episode #18
A Birth Mother's Adoption Story with 90 Day Fiance's with Kimberly Menzies
"Do you know what it's like to wake up and not have any secrets? I'm so free." — Kimberly Menzies For years, Kimberly Menzies kept one part of her life locked away. She built a whole story around it, a marriage that wasn't quite what she said, a picket fence meant to keep people from looking too closely. Then her son found her, and she realized she was done carrying it alone. In this episode of Her Story Unscripted, a women's podcast built on honest conversations with women, Kimberly, known to many from TLC's 90 Day Fiancé, shares the real life story behind the headlines. She talks about placing two children for adoption while serving in the Army, reconnecting with her son Larry, the ongoing search for her daughter, and the flood of messages from birth mothers and adoptive families since she went public. She also gets candid about love and heartbreak on camera, the comments that still sting, the grief of losing her mom and sister, and what it means to live life on her own terms now. If you've ever been afraid of what people would think if they knew the whole story, Kimberly's freedom might feel a little contagious. New episodes every Thursday on all major podcast platforms. Connect with Heather: Website Facebook Instagram LinkedIn YouTube Timestamps 00:58 Welcome to Her Story Unscripted 01:24 Heather welcomes Kimberly (and admits she was nervous for this one) 03:06 Life after reality TV: "I'm just a normal woman" 06:52 Grief, COVID, and how she first connected with Usman 09:00 Meeting on camera in Tanzania, and the private trip to Nigeria 11:21 The breakup that became a defining moment 12:55 What the comments did, and didn't, take from her 17:45 The notebook: answering every birth mother and adoptive family 19:00 The search for her daughter, and why she can't give advice 22:48 Heather on surrogacy, and the gift of making a family 23:37 The "picket fence" story she built to protect herself 29:19 Her relationship with Larry and his adoptive mom 31:53 Speaking as a birth mother at 22, and the man who changed his mind 36:11 Grief, health, and becoming the rock of the family 37:52 Love after reality TV, and being fully known 40:50 Forgiveness and friendships across the 90 Day cast 45:32 What's next for Kim (and why "Kimbali" is retired) 46:37 A shared love of Michael Jackson 48:05 Her one regret, God's timing, and her tight circle 49:40 Wrap-up About Kimberly Kimberly Menzies is a mom, cat mom, U.S. Army veteran, and birth mother best known to audiences from TLC's 90 Day Fiancé franchise, including 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days, 90 Day: The Single Life, and Pillow Talk alongside her son, Jamal. Off camera, she works full time as an assistant manager at a five-star spa, where her love of hospitality and wellness come together. After years of keeping her adoption story private, Kimberly chose to share it publicly, and she has since become a trusted voice for birth mothers, adoptive families, and adopted children who reach out to her every day. Today, she's focused on authenticity, wellness, and living life entirely on her own terms. Instagram TikTok Support the show






