
Episode #138
Ep 138 - ADHD Energy Reset
Coach Mande John got on a coaching call last week feeling mentally and physically exhausted - a high-energy new puppy, big projects in motion, and the sense that everything was taking more out of her than she had to give. She got off that call with more energy and a clearer head. Nothing in her life had changed. The puppy was still there. The projects were still there. So what shifted? This episode is about ADHD mental energy : the difference between what's actually happening and everything your brain adds on top of it. Mande walks through why ADHD already takes so much energy to manage, why cognitive fusion (a concept from Russ Harris's The Happiness Trap ) can make a passing thought feel like a fact, and why reframing "I have to" as "I choose to" changed how heavy her puppy, her projects, and her ADHD systems felt — without making any of them easier. This isn't "just think positive." Mande is clear: sometimes you're just tired, and your body needs rest. But sometimes there's real tiredness, and then there's a whole extra layer stacked on top of it — and those two things need different solutions. ✅ Why ADHD already asks so much of your energy ✅ The difference between facts and the stories we add to them ✅ "I have to" vs. "I get to" vs. "I choose to" — and why the last one matters most ✅ Cognitive fusion and why a thought can feel like a fact ✅ How to tell real exhaustion from added mental weight ✅ A simple set of questions for when something feels heavier than it should Listen on your favorite podcast platform or watch on YouTube. Grab the free ADHD Energy Worksheet: www.learntothrivewithadhd.com/adhdenergy Book a free coaching consultation: www.learntothrivewithadhd.com/services #adhdcoach #adhdcoaching #adultadhd #adultadd #adhdhelp Click here for show note. Send us Fan Mail CLICK HERE for more resources. We're on this journey together!

