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Hosted by Westside Therapist · education · EN · 100 episodes
It's Not About The Sex is a podcast based on the book by the same name. Psychotherapist Andrew Susskind examines issues such as shame, grief, narcissism, and codependency to demonstrate how people use out-of-control sexual behavior to cope with broken-heartedness.
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Signup to Generate a PitchIt's Not About The Sex is a podcast based on the book by the same name. Psychotherapist Andrew Susskind examines issues such as shame, grief, narcissism, and codependency to demonstrate how people use out-of-control sexual behavior to cope with broken-heartedness.
It’s Not About the Sex is hosted by Westside Therapist. The show has published 100 episodes to date.
Recent episodes include "Guided Meditation: Mindful Self-Compassion" (12 February 2026, 6 minutes), "Guided Meditation: Encountering Your Grief" (12 February 2026, 5 minutes), and "Guided Meditation on Grief" (20 May 2025, 5 minutes).
It’s Not About the Sex publishes roughly every two weeks, with episodes averaging 25 minutes across 100 episodes.
Booking probability for It’s Not About the Sex is 34%, and the host is rated Selective on guests. It’s Not About the Sex requires a Pod Score of 80 or higher. It’s Not About the Sex's contact route on record: verified email.
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Westside Therapist hosts It’s Not About the Sex, an education show with 100 episodes published.
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Episode #130
<p >Learn to meet your struggles with kindness through this gentle meditation developed by Chris Germer and Kristin Neff. This practice guides you through working with a moderately stressful situation in your life...
Episode #127
<p >A tender, contemplative meditation adapted from Joan Halifax's work that gently guides you through the difficult terrain of loss and sorrow. This practice invites you to sit with your grief compassionately, using...
Episode #132
<p>We all experience loss in one form or another throughout life. In this mindfulness meditation we will focus on grief and loss as opportunities to live with loss rather than “getting over it.” Check it out and see how...
Episode #131
<p >After 6 years, 128 episodes and 60 guests, the podcast is winding down. It’s a bittersweet moment to say goodbye and to express gratitude to everyone involved in this collaborative experience. Although the podcast...
Episode #130
<p >In Chapter 10 of Andrew’s workbook he investigates sexual health through a non- pathologizing, destigmatizing lens. Themes include: defining sexual health, reviving pleasure and fantasy as an ally. This candid...
Episode #129
<p >In this episode we turn the tables on our podcast producer, Sue Merlino to discuss her services called Clear Pathways. With a combination of coaching and organizing one’s physical space, Sue describes the valuable...
Episode #128
<p >If you scratch the surface of compulsive sexual behavior, you’ll find intimacy avoidance. In this powerful episode, Susskind and Merlino look through the lens of attachment as they discuss the challenges and...
Episode #127
<p >In this podcast we welcome Stefanie Klein, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, NARM Master Therapist, Somatic Experiencing Practitioner and Consultant based in Los Angeles who shares a refreshing take on shame...
Episode #126
<p >Following the subjects from Chapter 8 in The It’s Not About the Sex Workbook, Andrew and Sue explore themes of long-term recovery including purpose, spirituality and legacy—all in the context of Positive Psychology...
Episode #125
<p >Tim Harrington, founder of Family Coaching Services joins the podcast as he addresses the following topics: building a meaningful life post-recovery, especially by emphasizing healthy relationships, self-discovery...
Episode #124
<p >In this episode we take a closer look at Chapter 7 of Andrew’s workbook and examine some of the essential ingredients of contentment including gratitude, connection and unconditional love. Distinctions are made...
Episode #123
<p >Rafael Cortina, a San Diego-based therapist joins the podcast to discuss some of his valuable and wise perspectives on healing from addictive, compulsive behaviors. He shares the following themes: the functional...
Episode #122
<p >During this conversation Andrew and Sue take a deeper dive into Chapter Six Feeling the Feelings from The It’s Not About the Sex Workbook. Maybe it looks simple on the surface, but Andrew highlights the sustainable...
Episode #121
<p >In this episode we welcome Katie Griffin, a nationally-recognized group consultant and leader in the field. She brings her passion and enthusiasm to other practitioners and believes firmly in the power of group to...
Episode #120
<p >Andrew and Sue discuss Chapter Five, Regulating the Nervous System from Andrew’s recent workbook. Beginning with a memoir snapshot and ending with practical strategies and action steps, they explore the following...
Episode #119
<p >In this episode we welcome Dr. David Fawcett, a clinical social worker, sex therapist and two-time author specializing in chemsex and problematic sexualized drug use. Often a misunderstood form of suffering, David...
Episode #118
<p >Today’s episode focuses on Chapter Four of Andrew’s workbook as we explore the healthier side of narcissism, other-centeredness, generosity of spirit as well as longing and belonging. Beneath narcissism is broken...
Episode #117
<p >In this episode we welcome Arnold McCuller, interventionist and recovery coach based in Southern California. Learn about his extensive career working as a professional vocalist which has taken a later-in-life shift...
Episode #116
<p >Today we welcome Jean Campbell, the CEO of Action Institute of California to talk with us about psychodrama, sociometry, resourcing, and Somatic Experiencing—all in the context of compulsive sexual behavior...
Episode #115
<p >In this episode we examine Chapter Three of Andrew’s workbook as we encourage curiosity and non-judgment about shame. Although shame never goes away entirely, you can respond to it differently. In this discussion we...
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Associate Professor of Educational Psychology at the University of Texas in Austin, University of Texas at Austin
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, NARM Master Therapist, Somatic Experiencing Practitioner and Consultant, Sacred House of Eden
clinical social worker, sex therapist, two-time author, Epic Capital
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